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What should I do? I'm not sure how I feel about him or how he feels about me? Help>.< we're just friends. sorry it's long>.<

this year me and a friend(guy) got really close to each other. I can trust him with anything. we had a lot of classes together which meant we saw each other everyday. he's a cool guy and I can tell him anything. he helped me with a lot, he even got under my skin. we argued and laughed. we got each other in trouble in our classes and we became best friends. he told me who he liked and he knew who I liked. but we both ended bad with the people we liked. summer came and we talked about a mutual fiend and he got deep about how high school love doesn't exist and I agreed and he said as a guy they don't know how a girl feels about them so he never speaks up. and I think when I was asking him for a favor he thought I liked another guy but when he found out I didn't he got happy. we talked till like one or two in the morning. I txted him the next week but he didn't reply and I let it go. I thought ok whatever. then I had a weird dream about him two nights ago and it was about me finding out he likes me so he stopped talking to me because he thought it would ruin our friendship. it hurt me that he wouldn't talk to me so I gave up trying to continue being bestfriends. he kept saying I didn't understand he likes me but we can't continue being best friends. we had to stop talking he kept telling me and I kept getting mad because I did understand. that in my dream I liked him back but I still wanted to be friends because I thought our friendship can overcome a crush. when I woke up i felt like it was real so I txted him to say hi. and he didn't reply I feel like he's ignoring me like my dream. what should I do?

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I feel the exact same way... I have the same problem going on now and feel like I am being ignored cause he knows I like him and maybe he doesn't like me back.. but my friends said he does.... I really wish I could help because It would help me too...

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But that's the thing I don't think I like him it was just the dream. And ever since his last crush he never told me who he liked. And I was say but I thought we were best friends. And he would just turn around not saying anything else. And I didn't think much of it because I thought he didn't like me like that. Now I don't know how he feels or how I feel>.< ugh!
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I think he likes you. but you are just beginning to like him.. that's why they say love is so confusing and hard to get through and figure out.
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I don't knowxP but we both believe that love doesn't exist in high school. That high school couples don't last:P but thanks for your advicec:
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I think you should also keep quiet. He started it first and so you need to stop talking to you him to find out if he will text you back. You can also try talking to his friends to see what could be wrong with him.

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That sounds right. I guess I should stop talking to him. Thanksc: I appreciate the advice
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