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women have so many preventatives ,but why do they choose to get pregnant and abort the baby? Yet be against killing and crime?

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They don't look at it as choosing to get pregnant. The reality is however, they are making that choice. They just don't look at it as a responsibility. The just believe if they want to have sex they have a right to do that. Birth control or not, if people have sex they are always acting in a way that could result in pregnancy.
Just have to say, that since females are the ones who get pregnant, they have sort if a greater responsibility in this area. But let's not forget that if a female becomes pregnant and decisions need to be made, there is some male involved as well.

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This question applies to the women who choose to take a risk at getting pregnant
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I understand. I'm just saying for every woman who makes that choice there is a man who has also made that choice.
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alot of the time, women dont choose to fall pregnant which is why they may get an abortion.

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My post is about the women who choose to let a man ejaculate during sex but get an abortion after and is willing to make it a repetitive habit
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contraceptives are not fool proof either. there is nothing that is 100%,
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I haven't looked at the numbers, but I doubt women just get pregnant and have abortions all the time. It's traumatic and disruptive. Many people may not have access to preventatives or education about them.

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They really do honey ! You have no idea and it's heartbreaking
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You've seen evidence that women get multiple abortions monthly instead of using contraceptives? I'd love to see this!
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Sweetheart I've met these people and know a few , have you any proof that they're using contraceptives ? Pointless argument , I only need opinions not an argument
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Thanks anyway !
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Sometimes an opinion is that your observation itself may be in question! Anyway, I hope you find what you're looking for. Have you considered asking these girls you know?
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Yea I have , they seem really closed minded , they like having unprotected sex and allow the ejaculation during sex
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It's their decision of what they want to do with their unborn babies.

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But the second the baby is out of the womb now they don't have the choice to kill it anymore?
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They still have the choice after
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But after the woman gets charged with murder. All the baby did was move. That's like saying you can kill someone while they are on elm street but once they move baker street you can't and if you do you get charged with murder.
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Exactly but I believe it's legal , I think it's called after labor abortion , I lost the term : /
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Birth control fails, "good girls" don't use it/ aren't allowed to get it because only "bad girls" have sex and then the good girls get an unwelcome surprise when their hormones kick in.
Lots of reasons unwanted pregnancies happen but women do not just run out and get an abortion. There is a lot of thought that goes into the decision.

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If your not willing to either take care of a baby or give it up for adoption then you shouldnt be having sex. It's called responsibility!
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Tell that to the teens if usually happens to and by the way tell it to the boys who pull the crap about "if you really loved me"
Don't you dare lay it off on girls who for the most part are trying to be good.
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Exactly I know women who isn't on birth control and don't use condoms and say "oh if I'm pregnant I'll just abort it."
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Then you know stranger women than the rest of us. That kind of woman is rare. Mostly they abort after thinking it through and deciding it is best.
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When would murder ever be the best option? Ok maybe, maybe if the woman was going to die by giving birth then i could live with it but otherwise there is no legitimate reason to kill an innocent child!
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Again, not a child, an embryo. Do you eat eggs?
There are many reasons for abortion, those friends of many women rape and incest, then there is a young girl who falls for the "if you love me" routine. Is she supposed to ruin her life because she got had?
There are economical reasons also, at this point in my life if I got pregnant I would have an abortion, it took us many years of hard work to become comfortable, why would I go back Ti struggling?
There is also the fact that birth control fails and don't forget the pope doesn't approve of birth control do catholics have a number of failures.
But in the end it comes down to this, it is not yet a child to some people even if it's a child to you. You cannot claim to know that you're correct and more than I can, so let's leave it to the woman, her doctor and her god (or other belief system)
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Its called adoption
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@david. Are you paying all the bills prior to adoption?
Are you going most of a year in discomfort?
Are you taking on the possible complications?
Are you going to deal with possible parental anger?
It's easy to say adopt if you aren't the one going through it.
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What is wrong with you??? You just listed discomfort and parent anger as two reasons to end a life! Are you serious? Have you no heart at all!?
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Oh and one more more thing I have two adopted siblings so we did our part.
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Until you've gone through it, you have no idea what " discomfort" is
And parental anger can be deadly.
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Oh and one more thing, you didn't address any of the other reasons.
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Well I already said life ending complications could be reasonable grounds for abortion but that is rarely the case. And all the other reasons you listed are just so ridiculous they aren't worth addressing. Because according to you if someone is causing you discomfort for an extended period of time they should just be killed.
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Kill somebody? Once again you are judging by YOUR standards and beliefs. I do not consider an embryo a person and neither one of us can be proven correct.
If you don't like abortion, don't have one, just quit trying to make everyone else live by your beliefs.
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But that's where your wrong. I am a voter, which means I am partly responsible for the laws the government makes. So if the government allows the killing of innocent babies we are responsible as voters.
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And when we start killing innocent babies, then maybe I'll blame you (just kidding)
It still comes down to you want laws reflecting your beliefs whether or not anyone else agrees.
I believe that no person should be a parent without passing a comprehensive test. My belief, should it dictate your life?
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I'm totally against abortion. To me they are no different than murderers. They stopped their child's heart from beating, just like murderers did to their victims. They know that a baby can be made by having intercourse, but use abortion when the baby comes at the wrong time in their life.

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You are absolutely right
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Exactly!!
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Except it is not a child yet.
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Um too bad life begins at conception and science has proven that.
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Thank you David, if abortion is so ok, maybe boos parents should have.. Hmmm...
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Thank you guys for your opinions :)
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Keke, your very welcome :-) boo153 goes on everyone's answers trying to start an argument. Lol
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Lol !
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I only argue against ignorance. Please show me where it has been scientifically proven that an embryo or fetus is a person.
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No boo, I have seen when someone answers, you have to chime in just to start an argument, almost like you have no life but to argue on the Internet. Lol, everyone should ignore you from now on. Have you ever stopped and thought that you don't know it all? Hmmm... You should.
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Usually the ones who have abortions didnt get pregnant by choice. Very often their pills didnt work or they are knocked by some MAN who was too studly or ignorant to use a condom. Recall please TWO people are usually involved in making a baby and BOTH bear responsibility in preventing unwanted oregnancy.
As for why pro-abortionists also tend to be anti-capitol punishment i dont know other than its an awesome example of atheistic hypocracy.

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I understand but that's rarely the case
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This is well put and I agree
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You could call it Christian hypocrisy that they are anti abortion and pro death penalty. I don't understand either side.
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Hold on Boo I am a catholic and against abortion and the death penalty. So your theory doesn't fit.
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Well I am ex catholic and I am pro both do apparently you and I are the exceptions to the rule!
It does seem to be true that most people are anti death penalty and pro abortion or they are anti abortion and pro death penalty, I just don't get that.
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Ya neither do I. I don't see how you can accept one and deny the other.
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Because today's society is cold hearted and emotionless. We have so much mass media influence that we have lost all empathy for each other, look at what just happened in Colorado. It's really sad how far we have fallen.

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It is sad , I get so annoyed with females that have abortions but chose to let a man ejaculate during sex
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I think that everyone should have the choice of getting an abortion. It is there life and whatever they want to do with it is there choice.

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What about the babies life?
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^^ exactly! The baby can't defend it's life from its own mother, supposedly the one who is suppose to protect it! It's not her life to take!
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I don't think everyone should , too many people use it as the easy way out , I'm speaking of lazy people
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It's there decision not yours
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Really? so if someone shoots their 5 year old son. We cannot arrest them because its their child and their decision?
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