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RachelHu: 10 months ago via Android

I feel lonely and sad these days.how can i deal with it?

I've so many friends,but have no close friend...
I do all thing on my own.I just feel so lonely.
sometimes i wonder if someone can stay with me,just for a day.
who can help me?i need some suggestions,pleeease.

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MarcusToyota8: 10 months ago | Last edited at 1:15AM on 7/22/2012

Just try to be with friends that you can relate to and get along with. It definitely takes time to find and trust friends because you need to get to know them better. My advice to you is invite or have a get together with friends see what they like and what you guys can relate to. Close friendships are established over time without even noticing it. Just be open to talking and making good connections, you'll get some close friends or a best friend. If none of this work don't worry you always have your family to be close with. Best of luck

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Sweeterthantea: 10 months ago via Android

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McMahan176: 10 months ago

Same here sometimes. Maybe just have like a pizza night or something to gradually build relationships. In brasil i had a few close friends and now here i have several medium friends. Its normal though.

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susan_18: 10 months ago

I feel the same way. Just hang out with friends more often have sleep overs make new friends:)

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Exhausted_Love: 10 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 1:06AM on 7/22/2012

Eh I used to feel the same way listen to music you'll be fine if that's doesn't work maybe get a pet haha or invite some friends over have a party meet new people now if that doesn't work maybe you should keep yourself busy find a job focus on school exercise go for walks & stuff just do things you love to do

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nydtech: 10 months ago via Android

I don't know what to say. I had times like that. time is the best healer I guess. wait and see what happens. someone will be your close pretty soon. :)

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TerryNewell: 10 months ago | Last edited at 1:16AM on 7/22/2012

Music works for me as well, or talking to someone, anyone really if you don't have friends to call, but if you're feeling down enough to put it out there you must have something really bothering you, I don't know what advice to offer, I get depressed a lot and sometimes I get past it faster than other times but keep reaching out - that's for sure. In 16 minutes you've had 6 people offer suggestions so that's an online friend who cares every couple of minutes - try to focus on that. Good luck..

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KLhASIAN: 10 months ago

You can start doing more stuff with some of your friends to become closer.

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askerforanything: 10 months ago via iPhone

how about your mother or father

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RachelHu: 10 months ago via Android

they have no idea how I feel,I never told them.

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Sweeterthantea: 10 months ago via Android

I too am alone....

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Sincerity: 10 months ago

I'm here Dustee.

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MarcusToyota8: 10 months ago

Yes me too.

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tnylnc: 10 months ago

perhaps you could try something different. Instead of focusing inwardly, you could try reaching out and helping people. That might help cheer you up and you could make some new friends in the process. Yes, its hard to find close friends, they're like pearls in the bottom of an ocean full of empty shells.

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