welll, if you feel the need to belittle someone and give them a complex, the only thing I would say to YOU is...you are cruel, rude and disrespectful...and not very smart....and obviously dislike yourself, because you feel the need to put down others. Most girls feel "fat" even when they aren't, so don't be the cause of their complexes. Show support if she asks your opinion, but be positive in your choice of words.
everyone here is saying dont tell her i say tell her as it is i tell people all the time if they are fat. fat is gross. these people are telling you not to tell her then shes gonna get even fatter and maybe sick. the truth hurts and in this case you do have to say the truth and let her hurt maybe that will help her...
she could have a thyroid problem or something and also it depends on her age. Telling her is not a good idea. I would bet she knows she's a little overweight if she is in fact. Some people are bigger boned than others and really who are you to be telling someone something like that that could REALLY have an impact on the rest of her life.Start riding bikes or walking and see if she wants to join you.You really don't want to hurt her feelings do you?Everyone has something about them that isn't perfect so think about yourself before you start telling other people whats wrong with them! Be respectful and treat people the way you want to be treated!
you dont tell her that's just rude but you can ask her if shes your friend to try out for sports with you or to run in the mornings go for bike rides just a bunch of things that seem like you wanna spend time together not saying hey ur fat come exercise with me
Please do not listen to these people telling you "to grow a pair and do it." I'm a girl and telling another girl that is just plain rude. The fact that you asked this question disgusts me. If you guys hang out, try and do as much physical activity as possible if her weight bothers you--which it really shouldn't. Looks don't matter at all. It's there personality that matters the most. It's takes one second to call a girl fat and she'll spend the rest of her life starving herself. Please think before you act. Yes, us girls do have feelings too.
Girl's can be very sensative to the topic of weight, girls can even be offended if you call them skinny! I'm not sure why you want to call people fat, mean or nice in wording, but I don't think it should even really matter, Beauty is fleeting after all ;) The only beauty you will have left when you're old and wrinkly is your inner beauty, so it truely doesn't even matter.
you can't. women are like a time bomb. they get you a certain time until the self-destruct. just don't say that she's fat. just say that the outfit doesn't suit her or something like that without insulting her
you just give advise on losing weight then gradually she understands that you're not being happy with her weight. thats all. moreover because of her fatness don't lose her, mate, if she is really good then just be with her no matter what. chill