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How do I tell a girl she looks fat without hurting her?

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you can't

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Grow a pair and tell her

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Uhhh bad idea!!!
NEVER & i mean NEVER tell a girl she is fat! NEVER!!! :)

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like above it hurts every girl

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Why would you feel the need to tell anyone they are fat?

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Never call a Girl fat, even as a joke don't.

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*in a really sweet voice* 'hey, come here' 'y...yeah?' *hugs her* 'your fat. Lay off the taco bell.'

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And that is why your girlfriend is your right hand....if you do have a girlfriend she's probably a real class act...no woman would be with a loser like you...get over yourself....and get a job so you can get that hair done babe..a nose job would help u tremendously...but you already know that!
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Lol the pics a cartoon caveman. I'm rather good looking. And I'm a leftie.
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And I like (some) fat girls.
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Easy you don't!

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You don't and you can't. Do you know how many people went anorexic because of people saying that to them?! A lot. Please don't

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That's what I was going to say!!!
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tell her that you need a gym partner .. ;) she will realize .. :)

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tell her that she is getting bigger(like growing), and you think she should get some larger clothing that fits her age-if your really close friends, and are just using the growing age thing.

if she doesnt relize becuase she hasent weighed herself, ask her what she thinks your weight, and her weight would be combined together

really its kind of IMPOSSIBLE

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No good is gonna come from calling her fat!

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You dont tell her that. She can tell you you are ugly....but you dont tell her she is fat

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Amen!
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Never do that, it's the worst mistake any guy can make!

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You don't. EVER !

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You do not. Hopefully when you get a little mature you'll realise that is just rude.

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DON'T tell her!! If she is then I'm pretty sure she has realized it..just don't tell her

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you don't unless you want to ruin her life sorry bad break-up

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Don't.

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You don't! My god.

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welll, if you feel the need to belittle someone and give them a complex, the only thing I would say to YOU is...you are cruel, rude and disrespectful...and not very smart....and obviously dislike yourself, because you feel the need to put down others. Most girls feel "fat" even when they aren't, so don't be the cause of their complexes. Show support if she asks your opinion, but be positive in your choice of words.

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Amen :)
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How do u tell a boy stupid without telling him? Basically the same thing.

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You don't! If you have a problem with her size, that's your problem not hers.

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everyone here is saying dont tell her i say tell her as it is i tell people all the time if they are fat. fat is gross. these people are telling you not to tell her then shes gonna get even fatter and maybe sick. the truth hurts and in this case you do have to say the truth and let her hurt maybe that will help her...

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And does everyone tell YOU all the time that you are cruel, insensitive, and immature? YOU are by far the one who is "gross" and sick if you say hurtful things like that to people without even thinking.
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Hey doll, maybe it's hereditary for her....like you probably inherited you big nose....save some money and get that fixed....Gross! You've convinced yourself you're pretty but that nose is slowin down your looks...tooooo wide...just bein honest right? Isn't that what u suggest...
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How do you tell a girl that's shes ugly! You can't! DON'T YOU DARE TELL A GIRL SHE'S FAT!!!!

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That's rude you can't. As a joke, it won't be funny when she's anorexic and starving herself.

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You don't!!!!

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you dont..... you tell her and hope she doesnt kill you.

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Get it a life

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you cant

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If you like her take jogs and walks in the park say you are trying to get in shape and you want her to motivate you and be her buddy in doing it.(: You could even bring her to the gym with you

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an honest relationship demands one be honest with each other. Feelings are neither right nor wrong,yet to bury them will discolor your relationship. Be honest be encouraging so to lessen her fat roles

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you shouldn't !!

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theres no way haha

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DONT! That's rude, and very mean!

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you can go in front her and say directly you are a fat man.

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You dont! Never tell a woman she's fat. Never!

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How would you like it if she told you something hurtful? Don't be mean

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even in your dreams never ever

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send her a text.....off someone elses phone LOL

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nikky19

nevvverrrrr and i mean never tell a girl shes fat badd idea

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materda

Tell her that her cloths are getting a little small and ask her if she has gone to a gym latly.

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you don't tell her something positive to make her feel good about herself

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rarabrown

Whats the point! Any ways she probably already knows it and you dont need to point it out.

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she could have a thyroid problem or something and also it depends on her age. Telling her is not a good idea. I would bet she knows she's a little overweight if she is in fact. Some people are bigger boned than others and really who are you to be telling someone something like that that could REALLY have an impact on the rest of her life.Start riding bikes or walking and see if she wants to join you.You really don't want to hurt her feelings do you?Everyone has something about them that isn't perfect so think about yourself before you start telling other people whats wrong with them! Be respectful and treat people the way you want to be treated!

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you dont tell her that's just rude but you can ask her if shes your friend to try out for sports with you or to run in the mornings go for bike rides just a bunch of things that seem like you wanna spend time together not saying hey ur fat come exercise with me

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Please do not listen to these people telling you "to grow a pair and do it." I'm a girl and telling another girl that is just plain rude. The fact that you asked this question disgusts me. If you guys hang out, try and do as much physical activity as possible if her weight bothers you--which it really shouldn't. Looks don't matter at all. It's there personality that matters the most. It's takes one second to call a girl fat and she'll spend the rest of her life starving herself. Please think before you act. Yes, us girls do have feelings too.

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easy you dont

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Girl's can be very sensative to the topic of weight, girls can even be offended if you call them skinny! I'm not sure why you want to call people fat, mean or nice in wording, but I don't think it should even really matter, Beauty is fleeting after all ;) The only beauty you will have left when you're old and wrinkly is your inner beauty, so it truely doesn't even matter.

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Dont tell her, just go to the gym and offer her if she wans to come she will eventually come everyday, (i think) and slim down.

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*wants, sorry
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you can't. women are like a time bomb. they get you a certain time until the self-destruct. just don't say that she's fat. just say that the outfit doesn't suit her or something like that without insulting her

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oh god, dont tell anyone that. ._.

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you just give advise on losing weight then gradually she understands that you're not being happy with her weight. thats all. moreover because of her fatness don't lose her, mate, if she is really good then just be with her no matter what. chill

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YOU DONT! would you want people to call you fat.. Why would you call someone fat even if it was a girl/guy.. wow grow up

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You Dont You LoVE Her For What She Are Nd Looks Like !

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you don't, its a female mind trap. If its unavoidable try suggesting she wear something else or go with her to a fitness class if it bothers you so much. 0_o

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