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Every time I'm with him he flirts a lot, he's super protective and really sweet. I like him and not sure about how he feels for me because last time I saw him it was me, him and his friend and just randomly right in front of me they started rating girls and checking them out...then when I text him sometimes he doesn't respond until the next day and he won't flirt over texting but he will in person and on the phone. It's really confusing and the whole thing with him and his friend hurt my feelings, I asked my guy friend about it and he said that was a way of flirting, to make me jealous or something??? Idk. Any help or ideas on what's going on with him and me would be GREATLY appreciated. Btw we're not dating I like him and I'm not sure how he feels about me. Thanks! :)

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Ignore him. He still likes you and he is trying to make you jealous. Ignore!!!

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Isn't it good if he's trying to make me jealous?
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no not really. but it still means he likes you.
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guys are like that, they choose wats there territory and stuff like that, and most guys arent always wanting to text(: lol i meen guys are naturally protective

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what do you think about him checking out and rating girls in front of me?
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thats how most guys are sadly/: we pretty much dont even notice we do it
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So it was on accident or he was doing in on purpose in a bad way to make me jealous or in a good way to see my reaction??
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he probably didnt even realize that you care that much
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Oh *blush* yeah, I guess I do care a lot about him :)
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Yeah I think they're trying to make you jealous!!

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In a good way or a bad way?
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Talk to him about it. He may not realize he's hurting you. I had the same problem with my ex and it really helped a lot.

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Hmm.. Thats confusing.

Guys don't really notice things until you put it out there.
So unless you tell him you like him, its going to take a little bit.

What i would do, is text him..
" What would you rate me (of whatever they were rating the girls) ;)", or "Hey, want to hang out tomorrow?", and even "Did you get this question in H.W?" (If you share classes.) Or anything else you have on your mind.

He obviously feels comfortable around you, that he can hang out with you, him, and his friend together. I definetly agree with your guy friend, he's trying to make you jealous or notice him. :]
Try flirting with him back, the way he does with you. If he doesn't show any complex signs after about 3-6 months of you flirting,texting,talking, and hanging out with him, you might just want to break it to him.

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Well before he started rating girls I had checked out a guy that walked past him and I did it pretty obviously to see his reaction and he turned around and gave the guy a dirty look...then 5 mins later him and his friend started rating girls. Which I forgot about lol so maybe he was like trying to do it back to me
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Ya thts how they make you jelouse

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Drop him right now and move on. Remember you should always put yourself first and he should too!

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Gee can't u figure out the Guy has nothing to offer u and just wants to be friends?

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Well then...
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Uh, thanks
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well, this one is kind of rude, gee cant YOU figure out that people have feelings??
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^^^ haha
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The rating thing with his buddy was just cause he was with his friend. He had to act all macho and cool in front of the friend. The flirting in person could mean he likes you but if he isn't flirting when you text and he doesn't respond right away could mean you just got him at a bad time, but he don't wanna tell you that. If you're unsure where he stands just bring another guy around him once or spread a rumor that you're interested in another guy and see how he reacts.

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listen, he just wants to impress his buddies sometimes and when he does, maybe he goes overboard? i had a bf (best friend, not the flirting boyfriend part.) he would compare me to another girl and always said the other girl is cuter. but then when were just texting, he'll say that i am better than all the girls. (just being nice though.) so i think thats just what boys do.

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I think I mostly over reacted. I was stressed that day and I think it just kinda turned me off. But now that I think about it, it makes me laugh because if I did that in front of a guy (started rating guys and talking about them) 1. it would take a lot of balls to do and 2. I would be really trying to get him jealous and be like "HEY!!! ATTENTION!!! Hello? Yes, excuse me sir but I like you...get the hint!!!" Hahaha :D
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lol. i agree.
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