they feel unloved, and therefore, some hormone is released into the blood stream, and they start feeling sadder and sadder and start feeling like life aint worth it, im ugly, life sucks, or they just want attention, note the hormone thing is rare, but it happens.
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It's because what we see in the mirror is not what others see. When we look at ourselves, we notice every flaw that we have. I think it also has something to do with the fact that we see ourselves so much that we are tired of the way we look. We compare our faces to other girls who we think are prettier or have a better body than us and it makes us feel insecure.
im a fairly pretty girl id say im about average... but id say most pretty girls are just fishing for compliments.... they wanna hear you say that they are beautiful and u like their eyes or their smile... if you compliment them regularly i bet you'll rarely hear her say shes ugly
Girls think that they are ugly because the society that we live in today has put unreachable standards on the female population. Everybody's body is different and everybody looks different. But shows and magazines are always showing tall long legged skinny tan girls that make us think we need to look that way. Blame society.
we are all self conscious, and we all have something we dont like about ourselves that makes us feel more self conscious. also because people are rude now a days, they dont know how to keep their mouth shut about others, and all they do is make everyone feel bad. ..
coming from a girl we are very self conscious and we are told by other girls even guys sometimes that we arent im sometimes told by my dad and brother that i look fat and being a girl you talk everything and hold on to it and believe it
Honestly, a lot of girls are so self conscious. Most of the time these insecurities are caused by bullying. Trust me, it's not easy for us to look in the mirror and actually like what we see. So constantly being put down by people who are trying to make themselves feel better is always one reason why we are so self conscious.
Several reasons. 1.) she could be insecure because of the things people may have said to her. 2.) she doesn't know how u think of her so she wants to no if u find her beautiful or 3.) shes a bitch who wants attention and u to tell her shes pretty...
Most girls have a secret insecurity about them self in one thug or another... Some Giles have more than one... And are very open to admitting it. Also some girls (like me) are perfectionists... And that means even their looks. So good might never be good enough in their mind. Theres a lot of answers to your question it just depends on the girl.
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are you my boyfriend? you sound exactly like him haha...i personally feel that i'm not that pretty and that my boyfriend has dated girls much prettier than me...it's just because of how models are portrayed as 'sexy' and girls feel like they need to look like a super model(perfect skin, super tall/skinny, blonde hair, etc...) to be beautiful...and we tend to compare ourselves to other girls and pick out our every flaw...we are very odd creatures lol xD
its not for attention some of us actually feel that way its called being insecure it also doesnt help seeing all of these beautiful models and girls on the internet and on magazine covers honestly im not pretty now my bf would say other wise and i honestly have no idea why i just feel really ugly when my ex bf and all of my guy friends say that Megan fox is a heck of a lot hotter than me but i stopped caring and accepted the fact that im never gonna be pretty
actually a girl expects everyone to look at her and praise her charm,when she says i am ugly she is indirectly telling u to praise her... and women dont satisfy thats common for anyone bt if ur gf thinks it once in a while its ok she should not think or talk about it alwaysss
she's insecure don't know what for she's turning heads when she walks through the door she don't need make up to cover up being the way that she is is enough (sorry i had to) but most girls are just insecure or fishing for compliments
every girl is insecure about something a lot of people say "pretty girls" just say their ugly to get a compliment but that's not always true. see girls look at other girls and say wow shes way prettier than me... but truly who is someone to say whats beautiful and whats not...in the end your girl will probably always think she may not be as cute as other girls but you can help by telling her how beautiful she is and never let her forget that! and no matter what NEVER say another girls cute when shes around.
think of it this way..... you see those "pretty models" on tv every day... girls compare themselve s to the best.... i do the same.... that guy can do this and so i train harder in efferts to be as good or better (and always saying im not this im not that)
because sometimes we don't have any one to tell us we are and we also, have low self confidence because we see girls that are really pretty and we want to be like them.either that or we don't get boyfriends and that hurts also, which helps lower our confidence!!!!
I have this issue, and its not easy to get rid of...if you can get rid of it. Sometimes I look in the mirror and ask why I can't lose those pounds that shouldn't be important, or someone (lets say a parent or friend) tells me what I'm doing wrong with a situation, and I start asking myself "How stupid can I get?!" when it's most likely something silly, like cooking, sewing, or playing a new video game we just got... It might be symptoms of depression (women are more effected, from what I heard), just a hormone imbalance, or just waking up on the 'wrong side of the bed'. Every girl (young and old) is unique even in this field of life.
Just tell her how important she is to you, and that you love her. She should be fine in your embrace, that is where we ladies want to be, after all. (I know, I am a girl) Good luck.
well i have this feeling that since Ima girl that i will give u this if a girl is cute she says she is ugly cause she likes to feel special so i ask am i ugly and u answer no no no u r so sweet and sexy and she hears that and she feels special so she keeps doing that.
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well...its all about insecurities. guys dont wear makeup and they look great! girls feel like without makeup we just cant and wont attract guys/new friends. we feel like we cant look as good as guys sometimes. And/or it could be cuz us girls are jealous of other girls that are 'prettier' or skinnier than us and it makes us feel bad about ourselves. just a girl thing i guess.... sometimes girls just want to hear that they r pretty.
It's because when we look at ourselves in the mirror we c something different from everyone else. Then "ugly" words start to pop in our head and they won't go away. Just make sure u let her know she's beautiful and make sure ur always there for her.
There are so many different but possible reasons...attention, insecurity,just wanting to hear you say it, you know, if a girl gets complimented by someone she cares about she will be more likely to believe it.
because we always compare ourselves to other ppl, i honestly dont think im very pretty and it annoys me alot bcs i know im not, i mean there are other girls in my grade that are so much prettier than me so i get jealous, every girl just needs a boyfriend to tell them they are pretty and that they love them, unfortuately no one has done that for me so i must not be pretty
Everyone who said attention is WRONG!!! I said it. You are WRONG. You think you know this answer so well? Well guess what? Every girl has different reasons. By simply answering "attention" you are stereotyping all girls who don't think they are pretty.