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I have a boy friend who is NOT sex active and every time i want to have sex i cant because he hates to have sex what do i do

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S3duce him.. wow. I can't believe this is happening. :-)

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No ... wrong ... respect him.
He sounds like he's mature enough to know the risks of sex, and has decided it isn't worth it at this point in his life.
If sex is more important than his wishes, get a different boyfriend.
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that's your opinion.
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she was asking what she CAN do what she can stop doing. If she hasn't respected his decision they would have broken up even before she asked this question.
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haha u guys r funni ^_^ but i no the risks of sex to but i mean i want to stop having sex so that i can be with him and i dont want to break up wit him
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Arun, I see you're playing games with Maria. Stop it. Either be done with it or don't whine because your hearts broken. You can't have it both ways.

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you have no idea what's happening. I can't believe you're judging me of all people.
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I'm not judging. I'm observing. I'm just saying don't play games. You wanted Maria to speak with you and she has. Now you're ignoring her. To me, that's game playing. Just be up front, honest and be you. Like I've said, I know you're a good guy.
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I know.. We got into an arguement and I was bothering her too much so I said goodbye for a while. Her friend was mock-ing me and they both laughed and made fun of me I know I'm a 22 yr old and should act accordingly but I expected more from her. SURE most of it was my fault that's why I'm keeping my distance because I have nothing really good to say to her right now.
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And she's 13. Arun, please, you're a good guy. I'm concerned about you. To be honest, Maria should not be playing games with a 22 year old, and visa-versa. I care. I really do. I'm 58, I can only be honest. Please don't be angry with me for telling it as I see it. I'll always be there to help.
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I love Maria more than a sister.. her friend is a drug addict and uses foul words all the time!! I can't let her hang out with such a criminal and she likes him!! She picked to be with that guy over me. I hope you understand my frustration Mrs. C
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I do. But a 13 year old needs to learn on her own and be allowed to make mistakes. That's how we all learned. I care about Maria and I expect her to do the right thing. If she doesn't, she'll fall. That's how we learn. She'll pick herself up. You can't be there to protect her 24/7. Let it go. Please.
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That's why I'm here though. I've been here all this time to guide and love her and show her the true meaning of love and care.. *sigh* I guess you're right.. I'm just a bit problematic too not just with Maria.... So? I guess everyone can just cut me some slack... about the whole whining thing....
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First off he's probably gay.2nd I've only heard of this happening once or twice.But seriously every man has a certain turn,on, try to find his.

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dont care if he is gay but he is a christian and thinks that sex b4 marriage is bad and i want to stop having sex U PEOPLE R NO HELP!!!!!
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Jade, don't have sex. Not everyone is against that. I believe in your beliefs. Keep up the good work.
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Your beliefs and religion come first i was just kidding about the gay part...If you dont want to have sex and he doesn't want sex than don't have sex. easy!
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WHAT THE FLIP??? Do u hate sex or does he??? It sounds like u both hate it so DON'T DO IT!!!

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hes probley cheating on u

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