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so is it weird that i hate how my mom is always so happy, and cheery? i really can't stand really happy people. i just want to scream when shes happy and junk. idk why! i also hate how my mom talks alot. and i love it when im home alone and she leaves. is this weird?

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You should love her. Seriously. You only have one. Hate is such a strong word

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how old are u im 19
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Lol. I'm 35. I don't have kids so that's not why I said this. :)
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while im a boy okay and i want kids
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Np
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Not really. But you should be glad that you have a happy talkative mom. Trust me. You're very lucky for that. I generally don't like overly happy people, but she's your mom! I would love that!

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Ehhhhh....... kinda?

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are u a boy or a girl
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Madison's a girls name...
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okay im a boy how old is she because im 19
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I don't know. Why do you want to know?
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because i like her
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But you don't know her and you've never seen her. I'm not quite getting this...
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well let me get to know her then
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Can I ask this, if your a boy what does ur username mean? Kinda suspicious. And I'm glad these young kids look out for each other. I'm not being mean, but there's older men who prey on young girls and boys.
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Its creepy...
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If you're a teenager, it's perfectly normal to not enjoy your parent's company very much.

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People that are really chipper all the time get on my nerves sometimes too. Especially first thing in the morning.

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Umm it kind of depends because when people are happy sometimes they can be too happy that and it makes it annoying or kind of creepy. (there are girls on my bus that are really happy and loud in the morning and I find it annoying because I'm still half asleep and I'm just like "chill out you shouldn't be sooo excited to be on the bus at 6:30 in the morning)

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Well I see what you are saying. Wow!!! What kind of a horrible person, walking around happy so much. I don't know how you are surviving this!!!

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sarcasm gets you no where in life. so stop
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I know! Man! So bad having a happy mom
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STOP IT!!!!! i hate when people do this to me. it makes me want to punch something >:(
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Don't punch anything it's okay. Sometimes happy people get really annoying, I know how you feel.
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well the only reason i cant stand it is because im emo, i have anger issues. so im not happy most of the time and i cant stand it when someones happy :/
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What do you mean by emo? Because people take it a lot of different ways.
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well im depressed, i cut, im not happy anymore and i wear dark clothing
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Oh I see. It is rather hard to be happy sometimes.
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Well, you don't need to be so rude. Get some help!! My God! I'm not trying to be rude, but you kids labels everything these days only to validate bad behavior!! We never had that when I was that age. I'm only 35, but I swear if life is so bad get help and stop saying you wanna punch people. I mean you did ask our opinion. This ain't candy land. We will not sugar coat it to bend to your "label" js
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@sadiesmom i agree, and im only 14. i hate the whole "emo" thing. its a phase and half of the people that say it dont even know wht that means.
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Exactly. I think it is what goth was in our day. I graduated in 95. But what kids called emo we called drama queens and mentally disturbed. I'm not poking fun at no one. But I agree w/ you. They just try labeling themselves and if they feel that way it's not emo. It's suicidal or mentally troubled. Jmo.
Glad to know a a young kid sees it the sane way as me:). There's still hope:)
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jaja yes always beleive....we arent all like that. and yea im not trying to pick on anyone either! but emo really just stands for emotional....jaja yea...being labeled as emotional is "sooo" cool!:p
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Lol. Yeah, I don't get it. Really glad you don't define yourself. You'll end up turning out to be a great young lady. Picking on others is mean. But if someone has a problem I'll point it out. Maybe they've never seen it in our way we think. I hope so:)
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i absoultly agree! cheers! and thanks!! i hope i will get far in life too!(:
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im following you!(:
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REMEMBER I DONT WANT TO BE EMO!!!!!!!! i started being this way before i even knew what emo was. so stfu
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Well labeling yourself as "emo" won't help you not be emo. It makes you seem like you enjoy being emo.
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yea exactly! yall emo people act like its a life style...as if your mexican, american, african american, white, "emo"..wtf!? emo stands for emotional so um your basically saying your emotional. (its like saying your bipolar or racist or whatever) which is fine! but dont give it a nickname and make it a lifestyle!!! ive cutt my self and i have alot of black clothes...and im not emo!! or goth! so yea.
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who cares? i dont want help, i dont want to change. i like pain so i will stay this way
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Enjoying pain is not in the human nature. It's normal to avoid pain. You say that you're not happy anymore. So you're kinda contradicting yourself .If you're not happy, then you don't like the way you are...
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ummm so amanda your basically also saying w/me that this isnt a.life style....lmao.
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Otter2357

It's good that she is happy but sometimes it's not :/

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Little & kinda mean

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SSometimes is nice to be smily all the time. Sometimes.

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It's actually normal when you don't like your parents' company. Don't say hate, it's a very powerful word. Not being mean, Just saying. I hope this helps. =)

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Kinda

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this is just life we all can or will not always be happy, if this bothers you you should look into reasons why you can not at least smile or be happy. Be happy she can be happy and not envy or hate her for this.

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Personally it annoys me more when my mom is all pissy and sarcastic and takes her mood out on everyone... She does this frequently..... It irritates me.. But that's just me.
idk I love it when people are happy and nice. I just gravitate towards those kinds of people.

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Well I don't mind happy people but I don't think it's weird, people have different feelings towards things like this. But keep in mind that she is your mom, and you should still love her.

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You only have one Mom in this world! You should love her no matter what! Some people would give up anything to have there mom in there life! Every teenager goes through this not wanting there mom around and wanting free time to ur self. It's ok to be a lone but thank god that you still have your happy cheerful mom around take time to be by yourself but always remember your mom loves you and some day you will look back at this and the one memory you will always have is that your mom was happy and cheerful around you thank god for your mom for one day you may not have her make memories and always love not hate!

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um well yes its weird. hate is a big word. people would die to see their mom. a mom like yours, always happy and all.

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some people strive to be happy, as long as you dont try to make her un happy, its not weird, just different personalities, be happy around her, and well, whatever other moods you are somewhere else. Hate is a strong word, maybe annoying is what your looking for, find some joy in your life somewhere, through a hobby, excercise, or opening a window, cleaning is well, guess your wouldnt like that.

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Ask a waiter/waitress what type of person they prefer to serve. I'll bet someone like your Mom.
Do you think people prefer grumpy, gloomy friends or happy, cheerful friends?
It might be wise to let some of that cheerfulness rub off on you.

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Not really. I'm so relaxed and laid back I hate it too. And i like being home alone because then you practically get to do whatever you want (play music loud, play video games as long as you want, etc)

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exactly
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Yeah that's normal
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It's not weird but there's no need to be hateful, you should be happy for her

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troll face :3

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Arielee

Not weird at all. You probably have personalities that clash somewhat... Just lighten up and steer clear for a while. This problem will fix itself after a while. It happens a lot in families.

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Normal.

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