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Am I considered attractive?

I am 5'7" and 130-133 lbs but I swim (except when I'm injured like now) year round so I have some muscle... I have brown hair with blue eyes, wide shoulders, and hips.... but my stomach isn't completely flat..... I mean I don't exactly have a gut but I have a little "coke zero" belly...I mean I get hit on in a bikini but I thought guys liked model skinny girls... I may have a 32 d chest but I've never felt good enough... I starved myself to look perfect and didn't get far and then was bulimic for a while... I'm just so confused about what guys want!!! today I was texting a guy friend who's a little older and he said "I would do such dirty things to you if you let me"

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Stop worrying about looking perfect. Not all guys want model thin. Just remember looks aren't everything beauty fades. So eat healthy, exercise and stay clean and you will be fine. No one looks perfect.

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Yeah you sound pretty hot. And stay away from that guy you texted, he sounds like a pervert.

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ummmm i think yes

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Everyone is beautiful in their own ways. And it doesn't matter what you look like although you sound stunning you're based on your personality and your attitude. Maybe it doesn't feel that way now but whatever you look like or what you would let a guy do to you just know their will be a guy that won't care about that stuff. Hope I helped :)

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put a picture up of yourself

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That guy you texted are the type of guys you want to stay away from first of all. Starving yourself won't do anything it's just gonna get you anorexic n it could kill you. Boob size doesn't matter. Some guys like girls for their appearance and some just want a girl for who they are. But your all right I guess. Just be you and if you feel that you need to lose weight then do it in a healthy way like going to the gym or playing a sport, and not do it by killing yourself? I'm not trying to be mean but all guys are different and have different point of views in a girl. Stay away from guys who are just perverted and like girls for their body and hope to find sum1 who is similar to you, sum1 you like, sum1 who you think is perfect. I used to be a guy who liked my gf for her body often but then when I learned how wrong that was I admitted it hoping to be forgiven. Now I mostly like her for her.

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You shouldnt change for a guy if you really want a good guy you should want a guy that wants you for you

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I think it may be an insecurity thing, possibly resulting from one or more past experiences. Unfortunately, when physical appearance is compromised at a young age, it tends to linger in the individual's thoughts long after maturation. From your explanation, you seem very attractive, given the details, but beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder.

For example, with a pair of twins, one twin may think you are attractive and the other may not. This is because, as I was explaining earlier, the environmental conditioning that occurs while being exposed to society, peers, and family as you grow. You will see all over the internet and locally of polls and forums of what physical features are considered attractive, which race, and other characteristics. Much of this is derived from conditioning, while a small portion is biological - like genetics.

So to conclude, you seem beautiful because I prefer someone who is active, either taller or shorter than me, unique physical features (outside what is popularly portrayed in the media) - but not more than 15lbs overweight (which you seem to pass), and mainly intelligence because it contributes to a growing relationship.

Hope this helps!

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Someone, somewhere will always find you attractive. :)

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you are stupid to change yourself to please others, you do not value yourself you need approval from others, that's really messes up. don't you know you cNy please the world! WAKE UP! do u have a brain! hopefully you will live to become a parent, and would you want you child to be insecure like you are now? or have people who don't give damn about them treat them like dirty garbage and throw them aside? what is wrong with you? much more seriousl problems in the world.,,

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