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Me and this girl started hanging out and she told me she was 18....now we are dating and a few days ago she told me she was 24?? Why wouldn't of she told me in the first place? Like....should I be mad? I don't really mind, I'm just wondering why she didn't tell me the truth before we started dating? And I'm 19 if that helps with anything....;)

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Don't be mad, dude your 19 dating a 24 year old woman, thats pretty sweet

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Lol! Thanxx you ;)
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Maybe she just lied to date you because she really liked you?

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That's what I said
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Alright thanxx you ;)
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she probable thought you would think she was to old. i wouldnt be mad but maybe irritated. but koodos to you dude. and lol your not dating a girl your dating a women..

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Lol women...thanxx you ;)
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what the?? I would be upset, but give her a second chance :)

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I already did ;)
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good for you :)
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I don't know. Why are you asking us? The only person qualified to answer this is her.

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She won't tell me :/
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Then if I were you I'd start wondering what else she is hiding/lying about.
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Hm..alright thanxx you means a lot ;)
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Well she likes you enough to lie about her age she must want you badly

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Meh, I guess anyway thanxx you ;)
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Why do u do that
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Do what?
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The winky face
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Idk, just being nice I guess
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meybe she was araid you would not like her if she was younger idk man i wouldnt stop liking her though :))

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Lol haha, thanxx ;)
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no prob :)
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I can't help you there, but you did make me think of a song from 1958
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=naBlNM_Xbj4

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Lol alright ;)
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those people beat everyone on this too the answer, I think....
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Mayb she was thinking u wouldnt date a older woman i would let her no she disappointed you since u dont mind dating her but i would always keep in mind if she lied about her age what else is she lying about red flag early!

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:/ I like her a lot though
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No im not sayin dont mess with her i would b mindful to things with her older women/ men try to school the other person they're dating when they older nd if she lied about her age how many other lies will she tell you she may feel its so easy to do so and get away with it enjoy ur relationship n give her enough rope to hang herself
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Maybe she thought she was too old for you?

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Yea, probably thanxx you ;)
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she didnt want u to judge her for her age first i do the same thing with older girls im tryin 2 get 2 know

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Oh, alright thanxx man ;)
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Because she thought that you might be intimidated by an older woman, & wouldn't ask her out

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Thank you ;)
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You're welcome, and believe it or not it's very common
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Some women are self conscious about their age so they tend to fudge a little. When they are under 18 they tend to move it upwards. When they are over 18 they tend to move it downward. It's just one of those things that women do. I wouldn't worry about it. If you like her then don't question your good fortune.

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Thanxx, helped a lot ;)
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Mayb e she likes you and thought if she told you her real age you would be scared that you couldnt handle a 24 year young woman and maybe she has a kickstand bigger than yours .

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Lol..alright thanxx ;)
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word -- better watch out for the kickstand - lol -
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Alva!
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We all lie about our age, it's a girl thing !! Sorry

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Lol...wow
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Yep, it's true, we do!
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Why? Just to pi---ss guys off? Lol
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Honey when you get older, you just always lie about your age. Odd at 24 she would lie, maybe she thought it would scare you off, but that's not too much difference between you two.
Just make sure that's the only lie she ever tells you, you don't want to be hooked up with someone who lies about everything!
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Actually to tell you the truth, if she told me she's was 24 I probably wouldn't of asked her out ;)
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I would be upset if I were you. If she can lie about something so petty before you guys are dating I can only begin to imagine what she's capable of lying to you about should it every get serious......

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Hey...if she told me she was 24...I probably would of never asked her out....she's smarter then I thought :0
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Add long as your happy that's cool just don't let her lie to you on other things and make a habit of it
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Alrighty, thanxx you ;)
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At least she came clean and was honest w/you. She thought that you might "go away" because of that. I wouldn't be mad, but rather, understanding. At your age, 5 years difference is quite a bit, and we all know that boys/men mature later...

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I'm actually turning 20 aug 1st, so 4 year difference ;) and thanxx you
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I wouldn't be steaming. I'm 16 and I like women over 20. Haha.

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I say, if your happy, it doesn't matter. I think it's the part where she lied that bothers him.
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As long as he's over 18, I agree.
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You really need trust in a relationship !

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she be a cougar :) rawr lol

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Lol...rawr......lmao
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She lied because she really likes you. She didn't want you to reject her because of her age.

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Alrighty, thank you ;)
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She probally was scared you didnt wanna talk

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Maybe she just said that so she could get in your pants honestly if she's already lying to u what else is she gonna lie 2 u about in the future????

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I think she really likes you and she was just scared to tell you her real age because she maybe thought you wouldnt want to hang out with her knowing her real age!

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thats what i would be asking the girl, not people you dont know or who dont know the girl. just talk to her and listen to her reasons for lieing about her age.

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She most likely lied to you in the first place because she thought that the age difference would have bothered you. If I were in your position, I would be really upset that she lied to me. Honesty is what builds a sturdy, and nice relationship. If she's lying to you about her age, just think of what else she'll lie to you about in the future.

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That's a red flag doll...she lied right out of the gate...she said she was 18 because she knows that @ 24 yrs old she should be dating someone her age or older and was afraid to tell you in case you weren't interested. However, you should tell her that her age didn't turn you off, but the fact that she easily lies is...Do yourself a favor and move on from this one...Peace

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I agree with the answer above. Be truthful from the get go and you wouldn't have ppl's minds wondering if what they're saying next is a lie!

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I think she was probably just scared that since she was older than you, that you wouldnt date her, cause that tends to be a turn off to a lot of men.

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Her ID should tell you the truth.

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I think she just thought you would think she was to old for you . she probably didn't tell you cause she wanted you to get to know her and like her for her not her age . I'm 22 & probably would have lied if I liked a younger guy.

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Age doesn't matter, but she might've thought she was too old for you, but she really liked you, so maybe she wanted you to get to know her first..

Hoped this helped,

Cat

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maybe she thought u wouldnt date her.. idk.. tbh.. ur cute

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