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hjkfttu
hjkfttu: 10 months ago

What should I do?

When I first met this female I was upfront with her that I just didn't want sex and wanted a relationship or friendship. She said that she liked me too and wanted the same. After a few weeks we were boyfriend and girlfriend. The first month everything went great. One night she told me her past. She slept with her best friends brother who she knew had a girlfriend then lied to the girlfriend that she didn't sleep with the brother. Then she slept with another guy that had a girlfriend. Finally she slept with his friend. I told her I thought she was wrong and she got mad and said I was judging her. A few days later I drove an hour to see her at her apartment and was suppose to stay for four days, but left the first night. I was there for 10 hours and she ignored me the whole time while she was braiding a guys hair. The next week I talked to her on the phone and noticed she was going to bed a lot earlier than usual. So one night I called her and she didn't answer. Then I texted her and still no reply. So I called her from another phone and she answered. Also she is bi and spends the night with her ex girlfriend sometimes. What should I do?

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cialater
cialater: 10 months ago

gawd dude, walk out b4 she rips out what is left of your heart! you deserve so much better. say bye and don't look back. look into yourself and see what you really want out of life and aim for that right now. concentrate on making life good and good will come. give your heart a break and time to heal., then look for who you heart tells you is right, not just there

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carlcab
carlcab: 10 months ago

Make her oink like the confused pig she is .

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confusedgirl100
confusedgirl100: 10 months ago

Honestly I would confront her about acting strange. If she continues this I would drop her. She might not be worth your time if she acts this way. I would feel the same way if I was you. Good Luck. (:

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SockMonkeyTheWise
SockMonkeyTheWise: 10 months ago

Dump her. Don't deal with antics like that. She sounds like a nut job.

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christinacakes
christinacakes: 10 months ago

She might be sneaking around when a male or female can't get any at home you better believe they know somewhere to get it. I would talk to her honestly about cheating. And I think the problem in this relationship is lack of communication if she isn't willing to talk still ignoring you for stating a fact that she was wrong then maybe it's time to move around. (by the way I'm 13)

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Trigger_Happy842
Trigger_Happy842: 10 months ago

Dude, she is one of those girls you want to let go. She is obviously unfaithful and that only leads me to think she might be cheating on you right now.

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hottopic888
hottopic888: 10 months ago

i think it would be best to tell her she needs to stop and if she doesn't that tells you she isn't looking for a good relationship and also if she doesn't stop doing these things you should break it off with her.

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robscafe
robscafe: 10 months ago via Android

really?

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McMahan176
McMahan176: 10 months ago | Last edited at 10:46PM on 7/29/2012

You deserve so much better man. For real. I know how it is and it tears you apart if you keep trying. But once my granpa said after his 50th anniversiary that his generation would fix things that didnt work instead of just throwing them away. So ya. There is that perspective. But since you arent married to her i suggest number 1

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BlueEyes123
BlueEyes123: 10 months ago

If you love her, I would try. But I personally wouldn't put up with it if I were you. Don't waste your time on people who don't deserve it tho!(:

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McMahan176: 10 months ago
Haha interesting.
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BlueEyes123: 10 months ago
Lol I guess we can be friends? Ha.
And interesting..that comment? Or my answer?:P
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Simplyy..Dhee
Simplyy..Dhee: 10 months ago

Meet new people because that's obviously what she's doing & your letting her take advantage of you...like your a piece of meat.

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dynamic
dynamic: 10 months ago via Android

Your reaction to her confiding in you was actually inappropriate. If you cared about her, her past wouldn't matter. The appropriate response should have been "I'm really glad you're not like that anymore." Saying this would show your disapproval in an understanding way. She's reacting this way because your words hurt her. With that being said, her reaction is immature. It sounds like you are both wrong in this situation. If you still want her, apologize but also explain that what she was/is doing is hurting you.

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OrangeLion
OrangeLion: 10 months ago | Last edited at 11:28PM on 7/29/2012

Think of her as a lioness and your a lion, you have two choices here 1 chase after her 2 walk away. both of these choices have a consequence. 1 she can break your heart. 2 she could be the one. with help from u

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Salang
Salang: 10 months ago via iPhone

D-U-M and P
Dump her!
Dump her!

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azeneth1983n: 10 months ago

If a person is acting weird in a relationship obviously something fishy is going down. Pretty much she's playing/cheating on you... Esp. the part where you said she's going to bed early then usual, not picking up the phone when you call her up but when you call her from another phone she picks up, and also the whole ignoring part for 10 hours while you visited her... Pretty much those are the obvious sign right there... In my opinion she's playing you pretty good, I think you should just let that girl go, and find someone who will treat you better then the best, and save yourself from getting hurt and as far with what she did in the past with the person she's been with, who know's maybe she's doing it to you as well... Just saying....

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