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I just want some advice.

by BF's cat which he had for over ten years recently died, I want to help him feel better but I don't know how. it is also a long distance relationship.

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Wtf bf?
Thought u were a guy

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GodzChild
Guys can have BF's. What's wrong with that? Now I can see it being awkward if it got any closer... ;-D God Bless.
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I am
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Best friend or boy friend?
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Boyfriend I am bisexual
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GodzChild
Wow...You're seriously crazy. 8-D God Bless.
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Hehehaha, that's funny!
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He is my BF my mate my partner what ever you want to call it
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Really this guy wants to help his boyfriend get over his cat and you're all hung up on his sexuality?
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You need help
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GodzChild
Yeah. I hate to say it, but Cali_Kid is totally right. Sorry man...or woman...or whatever. ;-D God Bless.
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fallingage20

Why don't you bring him to the pet shop and pick out a new cat that reminds him of his last. Cat?

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Long distance good idea tho
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fallingage20
Thanks
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fallingage20
Let me know how it goes
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I will you got an email
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That's a tough one. Only thing I can come up w/is when you talk to him (or text) let him talk about kitty. That's if he wants to). Let him say whatever he wants for as long as he wants. Let it be all about him&kitty for that time. Just listen to his sad story. I promise when he hangs up w/you he WILL feel better. Your a good friend. P.S. Don't make him talk about kitty if he doesn't want to though;)

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Alright thanks for the advice man
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Sure
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instead of giving him another cat, get a different animal, that is totally different. such as.......... a snake, a duck, a meat eating fish, i mean heck, get him a venus fly trap, just make it different.

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I like that idea too
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Kat...what did u end up titling your 3rd book? You know the thriller/comedy/romance book;)
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a splash of color
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Well, from personal experience I'd say not to get him a cat too fast. When my dog died I didn't get another dog for a while because it felt like I was trying to replace her. Which I didn't want to do because she was special... so i wouldn't go out and just chuck another animal at his feet. As corny as this sounds I just think he needs time to grieve (if that's what he's doing... I mean I don't know how close he is to this cat...)

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Bro in a nother Q he says there's this girl he keeps asking out but she has a bf an like ah idk how to say it look at his other Q
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Thank you for the idea and (kinda) helping defend me in the comments at the top
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It's all cool...
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Give him something he loves

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i think you should gift him a cat exactly like the last one :)

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