Ummmm, hide in your room? You could talk to your mother about this. Correction, you SHOULD talk to your mother about this. That's all I can say.

TR0lL3D_CR3eP3Rs: 10 months ago

I have talked to my mom about it, she said that things will get better, but it just keep getting worse and worse. and i find my self hiding in my room all the time, and i don't have friends over that much any more because im so embarresed of my mom

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LittleStormCloud: 10 months ago

Tell her how seriously it is affecting your life. MAKE HER listen to you, and tell her that things ARE getting worse. Pull yourself outta the dirt and make the day! Then things will get better.

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Cant you go live with your Dad??

TR0lL3D_CR3eP3Rs: 10 months ago

i've told my mom that but i don't know if my dad would like that

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Kuckleburg: 10 months ago

Why would he not? As a Dad I loved it when my kids came to live with me.

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bella904: 9 months ago

How do you know if he won't like it if you have not asked him? I would go that route.

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Well I don't think there's much you CAN do.. Umm.. Does ur mom know u get picked on in school? If not then tell her.

That sucks that kids pick on you for something that is out of your control try not to take it to heart they are just talking out of their ass. I would also talk to your mom about how you feel maybe you all can eventually move or she could make him live somewhere else until things settle down

There is not much you can do..im sorry its like that though! Maybe talk to your mom about it! Im sure she wouldnt want you to feel the way you do!

you're in a really $@#&%* up situation. and I don't know what to say to make you feel better, don't let your frustration get you into trouble in school, that wont hurt anyone but you. it amazes me how indifferent people can be about how their actions hurt the people around them

I don't think you have to explain too much to your classmates. You are just an innocent child and it's the adults' fault.

Talk to your mother, and your father. As for the kids at school I am sorry. Do you have a group of friends that are standing by you? If so hang with them and ignore the rest. I know it won't be easy, but to tell you the truth life isn't easy. I am sorry you are going through this, and it isn't fair.

Now if you can, take a step back from your pain and take a good look at how your parents were doing before all this happened. My guess is there were problems or it never would have happened. Is your mom happier now? It really wouldn't be fair if she and your father weren't happy before to continue to live that way. So it is time your take your pain, as real as it is, and set it aside and talk to your mom as openly and honestly as possible. You need to listen to what she has to say. If you feel you are losing control of your anger as to take a break and walk away and just breathe, But think about what she said, If you don't think you can talk to her without losing your temper write her a letter, and have her write you back. You need to keep communicating or you things will get worse.

It's awful for you, but you must live your own life. If you get crap about it, you are just going to have to let it roll off. Its ok to be upset, but Don't be embarrassed because you did not bring any shame to yourself and should not let this take you down. You can just say to the clods that give you a hard time that you can only hope they never have to take crap for what their own families do, and you choose to not address gossip about your family just like anyone else would. Then tell them if they have nothing normal or nice to say, you need to Move along to something else and then leave. Don't make excuses, don't defend, don't say anything to address the issue, you don't owe it to anyone to address it. Its no ones business. You didn't do anything wrong and the less you make of it the quicker it will quiet down. as far as your moms new house guest goes, just tell him and mom it's very difficult for you to be warm and fuzzy right now so don't mind if you keep to yourself. be polite and immerse yourself in something that makes you happy.

tell them if you dont fix it. you will go live with your dad.

just talk to your mom about this and if she says other wise like " i dont care" just call your dad on your phone if you have one of your own and tell him to come get you and when you get off the phone just start packing your stuff if he is coming. but when your mom starts realising she has done something to "YOUR LIFE" she might want to dump the new guy for your dad so you all can be a happy family again. oh and just to let you know my name is JuDean Webster. and you are welcome for the advise. hope you get thru all rite. ;)

bella904: 9 months ago

Like your answer.

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I am so sorry your going through this! My advice to you would be ask your dad if you can live with him. Your dad or another relative is your only way out. When the kids at school make comments about your mom, all you can do is ignore it. You are NOT responsible for the decisions your mother has made I like the above answer.

Don't forget your school counselor is always there to help in these situations.

Prove them wrong. Show them you are nothing like your mother. And, if you feel the need to, confront your mom's bf and tell him politely but firmly, "I do not appreciate the ways you have contributed to negatively affecting my life and I do not view you as a person with character and have no desire to have a relationship with you any more than necessary." Also, you know he will tell your mother, so be sure you tell her directly after the conversation you had with him so she understands that while you stood your ground, you were not trying to offend him.