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How can I get my ex gf off me, even if I broke up with her 2 weeks ago, she still stalks me :(

we were only going out for 3 weeks, and she's crazy Guh

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Sometimes when we break up with people, they have a hard time getting over it. Usually we have to be blunt about wanting to be left alone, but make sure you do it with tact. Don't embarrass her by any means, that will just make you look like a jerk. There are times when people just need to be flat out told, 'leave me alone!' If that doesn't work, you may need to (depending on her age) either contact her parents, or the local police and file a report.

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Ya i agree but call the cops? i dont think it should go tht far! lol unless they threaten u with knives n stuff lol
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Fire a restraining order.

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you have to give girls time to get over you. its a tough phase we go through bc are emotions are more sensitive then guys. thats why we cry over every little thing a guy does bad to us. the smart thing to do is at least give her a chance at being friends with you.

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liilmamas
Not all women cry all the time. You obviously are either very young or extremley sensitive and emotional.
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The girls has had her heart broken. It's not easy and will take time for her to heal. If she's a young girl she will lean on friends if available and they over time will take your spot until another boy comes around. Just be sure to not send mixed signals. Be kind but mostly not around. At least for a little while give her time to return to a life of normality. If she's older (adult) then give her time, space, and move on with your life. If she won't let you, yeah you might have to seek a restraining order. Be sure not to be sending mixed signals.
People with broken hearts like to read into the simplest jesters. A pleasant hi how are you? Now becomes were thinking about going out again. So they put their life on hold and never move on. Make your intentions clear but be tactful.

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Just ignore her...

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If she calls u, let it ring. If she texts u, don't reply. If u see her in person, don't go out of way to not walk by her, just walk by and don't say anything o even look at her. At this point, she wants attention from u. Don't give her any. The main thing is just to not reply to any texts or phone calls.

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Don't burn bridges because a women scorn is not pretty just easily explain to her why but be honest not hurtful.

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u gotta man up and tell her im not trying to be rude or mean but stop stalking me its over and done with k?

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She obviously thinks if She stalks you than you will give her attention and some how you two will get back together. Let her down easy. Just say that you two were not meant to be and there is some other guy waiting for her but she is waisting her time on the wrong person.

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I think that if it gets worse change your identity and run for the hills !!! Lol

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It's normal just wait !
And don't talk to her at all!

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adriana1

How long were you with her?if it was a long relationship itll b hard for her to move on...but she will eventually.if shes stalking u its cuz she still cares n wants u yes I know u probably dont want her.talk to her n tell her the way u feel that shes stalking u n it feels weird.its always nice to still at least b friends with your ex's.but make it clear for her "only friends"

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