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If a guy tells you he's not in love with you anymore and said he still like's you.. & gives you one last chance what does that mean?

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Your right you shouldn't call him. He's the one who broke up. Give him his space and he might come back. Us guys are strange sometimes, we like a challenge, and we want what we can't have. I'm sure your great girl. Dont be so available to him, he will come back...

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i think were together though this morning i had to call him at 5 in the morning to make sure he was up for work and he was saying i love you baby and thank you but i sent him this long text at like 6 in the morning and i still havent gotten a reply or anything.
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but i dont think i should give in and keep texting him or call him
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He's having his manstral cycle, or he's nuts-either way kick him to the curb

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i want to and i dont -_-
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Life's to short to play childish head games over BS. But he gets away with it because you let him. Send him packing, step back and look at this clown, as soon as that s*** came out of his mouth, you should have said wow, thanks, but no thanks & walked away. He's a child, can you think of anything that he has that makes him worth putting up with him--nope
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when you put it that way no i dont
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That means that he has not yet gotten over you and still wants to be associated with you. Giving you another chance means that he still wants to be your friend and wants you to show him how much he means to you.

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he told me last night he still wants to be friends but i think were still together i have no idea he wont talk to me.. and i dont think i should call him or text me cuz i kinda want him to come to me
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BS, it means that he'll still tap it, but he'll be hitting other tail
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One last chance to do what, it sounds as if he might want to use you. I am sorry but think about it, does he do anything you want to do, is it always his time, his way. I think you can do better. GOOD LUCK

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umm im not trying to sound like a slut because im not ive been with this guy for two years this month and ive known him forever but if i wanna have sex hes to tired to and just goes to sleep but if i say how about head he like yaaaayyyy do that but ive had him promise to have sex with me if i gave him head and he still doesnt do it.. like the last month and a half its wat ever he wants..
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umm im not trying to sound like a slut right now ive been with this guy for two years this month and known him FOREVER but when i ask him if we can have sex he says no im too tired and then goes to bed.. but if i ask him about about head hes like yaaaayyy do that.. ive tried to get him to promise to have sex with me but he wont keep the promise he says hes too tired.. its always about him now !
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umm im not trying to sound like a hoe right now ive been with this guy for two years this month and known him FOREVER but when i ask him if we can do it.... he says no im too tired and then goes to bed.. but if i ask him about about head hes like yaaaayyy do that.. ive tried to get him to promise to do it with me but he wont keep the promise he says hes too tired.. its always about him now !
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sorry i did not mean to post it that many times it said it didnt post..
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Who knows. If somebody told me they weren't in love with me along with offering one last chance I wouldn't be able to get away fast enough.
What's the chance for? Time enough
to brush up on your skills?
Forget him!!!

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so i can prove to him that im a better person the reason hes doing all this is because when i dont agree with something i have a really strong oppion about it and he doesnt like it
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See you aren't comparable and It's his way or you're history, basically.
This isn't going to end with just this incident. Relationships are about compromise, or agreeing to disagree.
He doesn't seem like too much fun to me!
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You need to tell him so long, goodbye. I've been in relationships such as that. How dare him say he is giving you one more chance. That is absurd. Just the fact that he has no desire to please you shows he is selfish, love is not selfish! Why would you want to be treated like that? If he wants to really love and be with you, he will make it happen. Trust that.

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i dont but i dont want to give up on something ive put so much in to im scared to be alone
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I totally understand that. But you cannot let someone treat you that way. Whether or not you stay with him now, it will eventually end badly, causing you more pain. If he loves you, for real, he will fight for you. Maybe take a break, he may just realize who and what he is losing. But if not, then you have your answer. I know it's hard but I trust you can find strength to do what is right for you. I don't know how old you are but start making boundaries now. I promise you will be glad you did :)
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thank you so much im gunna try i deleted his number and all his pictures and all of our conversations earlier im hoping this helps me.
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Good for you! I sincerely hope this turns out the way you want it to, I really do :)
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thank you mee toooo!!
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It means he's not in love with you but is too gutless to say it. Sorry but you need to move on.

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i know i do..
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Good luck!
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