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How to get a toddler to stop hitting/biting?

I've tried time outs, talking to her, using a stern voice....I need help!

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Hitting and biting back is not okay. Doing that shows the child its okay.Tell the child no, that hurts. Get the child involved in an activity, redirect their attention. Use time outs or time ins if necessary.

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Hit and bite back but don't hurt her at all

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hit and bite back

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They grow out of it fairly quickly...dont' worry!
Trust me, I remember

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Your supposed to do it back to them, to teach them not to do it anymore

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My daughter did the same when she was little. When she would bite me, I'd tell her that wasn't nice and take her out of my arms. If you don't make a big deal out of it, this too shall pass.

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Don't do it back to her, that's child abuse!
My son who's turning 18 used to do that as a toddler! I'm telling you from experience, she will stop on her own! If you ignore it, she's not getting attention from doing it & she will stop! Try playing with her more, it's a play for attention! Something's missing in her little life!

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..child abuse my a$$.
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Biting and hitting a toddler is child abuse. Where have you been?
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its not child abuse! what effing century were you raised in?? I dont understand all these new laws and "child abuse" bull crap.Im not sayin beat the hell out of your kid. im saying slapping their hand and telling them they are wrong is okay. biting them back is fine too just dont go to the extreme with it. Thats not child abuse. Child abuse is when parents take things over the edge. And that is on them. What are you going to do when your 13 year old does not like what you say and starts cussing you out? Are you just going to stand there and let them. hell no. pop them in the mouth. They are never too old for that. Thats what is wrong with kids these days. Their parents dont give a crap and they go to school and desrespect teachers, elders, their grandparents, etc. Then some of those idgits wind up in jail or prison. What ever happened to manners? Respect for elders? Respect for everyone? If you dont like what i have said, i really dont care. like it, lump it, or shove it upyour anus.
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Get an exorcist

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What a terrible answer.
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Do the same back to her, I'm not saying you use full force but you need to get her attention. As far as this child abuse crap, that's b.s. My niece used to bite and spit, I've seen her pediatrician bite her and spit back at her, right between her eyes, It was quite a shock!

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If my child's ped did that to my child, you can bet I'd report him ASAP!
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Yeah, luckily it wasn't my kid, my sister in I law was unphased. So glad I never had issues like that with my kids
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Don't do it back to her; that would be abusive and wrong. Adults must not behave this way. Remove her from closeness with you when this happens. Then try to identify the triggers for this behaviour. What makes her this angry? Please remember that this is a phase that will pass as soon as she is able to structure ideas into a few words and is understood by others.

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