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Why is it that guys barely have to try to look good but girls try so hard to look good all the time?

what I mean is, a lot of girls wear makeup and get their hair and nails done and wear cute clothes to try and look good. and all that stuff can make a girl more attractive, but guys can just roll out of bed throw something on and pretty much just look hot. guys have it so easy they don't need to do anything to try and look good besides being groomed and buying nice clothes. know what I mean?

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I don't really care how I look. Ponytail, makeup free, capris, guys tee. Most girls just care about boyfriends and popularity. I couldn't care less!

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Same here but I don't think MOST is the right word. I don't think any of my friends want a bf give or take a few
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It doesn't work, that way with me. .

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I'm kind of a nerd, with good fashion. ;)
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were just easier to maintain

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I don't know but it's not fair.

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Girls deserve to be dolled up we don't & believe me some guys do a few things you named isn't as easy you think :)

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Trust me I know some guys do.. My brother is a personal trainer so he's really into how he looks, his whole lifestyle revolves around that. But some guys I can tell barely did anything that day to look good and they still look hot. I don't get it lol
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Those are lucky guys I honestly worry about everything hair gelled down to what I wear how I smell facial creams eyebrows shaped up haha i care about my appearance sometimes I don't most times I do I feel like I wouldn't look as good if I didn't do the things I did
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I think guys just don't care about that stuff like girls do. I think guys like to see the "pretty put-together" girls and we girls kinda like the "just rolled out of bed" look on guys :) But there are always exceptions; some guys like their girls with less makeup and messy hair, and some girls like their guys to be in Armani suits.

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low maintainance

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...lol...

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Idont wear makeup and dresses ^_^ I honestly think looks don't matter as yes that is me in my pic lol

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It is so true lol. There's a few answers to this question...first off not all guys can roll out of bed and look good. There are guys that are just as insecure as us girls that take forever to get ready doing their hair, shaving, picking out the right clothes etc.
Second, girls do this because it's in our nature to look good. Everywhere you look you have billboards, advertisements, media, news etc telling you how you should look and what you need to look like to be considered beautiful. They are all lies! You, just the way you are is beauty. Guys also, at least most, don't care if a girl has her nails done, what color her hair is for the most part, or if they wear makeup. Most guys prefer woman to not wear makeup but that doesn't happen very often lol.

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Us women wear makeup because it gives us a sense of confidence and beauty, even though we really don't need it. I suffer from all the bs that are in the media, ads, tv etc. Don't get sucked in because once you do it's so hard to change your thought process once you start believing it and tell yourself you need to be this way or need to be that way. You are perfectly fine the way you are and believe me, guys notice that and they notice you just the way you are without make up. But you're right, men do have it a lot easier than woman and it's not fair. They also don't care, at least most of them. ;P
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They have less hair to brush , most anyways , etc..

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most women try to hard. my wife stole my heart, the first time we met, in faded jeans, old yellow tee shirt, and a poneytail

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Idk but it's really annoying. I take about 45 minutes to get ready in the morning and my brother takes about 2 minutes

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