There is always a reason why everything happens. Like some people fall in love, then end up with heartbreak afterwards... then you spend your whole time thinking about what you could've done to change that situation. You think about why it even happened.
It is weak minded to believe everything happens for a reason. If you believe that, you use that excuse when something happens when it could have been your own mistake (if it was bad). You are throwing the credit away from yourself in a good or bad situation. Things happen by chance or how you make them. Simple as that. You make decisions that cause things to happen... That's not a coincidence.. Or a reason... That's very narrow minded to believe that. It's like a way out of a persons denial