Is the babies daddy or the 17 year old out of state bf? I'm confused. I think at your age you need to leave boys alone. Sounds like your making a mess out of your life and it has just started. If your mom broke y'all up, she is just protecting you. You may not see it yet. Your young and this fantasy will pass. Get more involved with school instead of boys and you'll go far in life. Schooling will be forever when boys aren't.