Loving some one is thinking about them, having butterflies in stomach and want to spend lots of time together. Being in love, means you accept them absolutely, who cares how they squeeze the tooth paste, and truly wanting to spend all the time together, and wanting to share every.moment of life together, and giving them 100% of every bit of your heart, mind, body, and soul. They become your absolute best friend and you share everything in your secret heart closet with them. They know all your skeletons.
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Last edited at 10:01AM on 1/1/2013
This is the Million Dollar question. I believe loving someone is you care about the person and there feelings and you dont want to hurt them. Being in love with someone is fresh new , thinking about them all the time. Just loving some one in a marriage is not enough you have to be In Love with them. Being in love is they really cant do anything wrong in your eyes. You can love your ex for what you shared but you should be in love with the new person. No one said it was easy. So it is better to be in love then to love someone.
I think when you love someone you care about that person or persons will help that person you will also give to that person. however when you ARE inlove with someone its all that and much more. the word is INlove its goes deep affecting your heart mind and body the person is always on your mind you want to spend every moment both awake and asleep together you want to always be intimate and close, you are happy if the person is and visaversa, the very moment you part you start missing the person you are vulnerable when it comes to this person because this person can really hurt you. most importantly you will LOVE this person even when this person stop loving you.