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My "friend" told me since i'm a surfer, i'm going to hell....

When she told me this, I was too stunned to say anything! What should I do? I mean, Bethany Hamilton is my role model and she's a devout Christian..... I'm a Catholic and I certainly don't believe what she said but what should I say to her????? Please help!!!

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why the heck did she say that?! of course you're not! just tell her that she's being an idiot or something

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i know :( she's really stubborn in what she believes in and "the only way i can go to heaven is if I repent" or whatever crap she said
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surfers are awesome! don't listen to her! why does she even think that? it's not like your whacking people upside the head with your surfboard
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yeah idk! i mean surfers haven't done anything bad and plus almost all of them are for taking care of God's creation, the ocean! so idk what her deal is...
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yeah, i know! you're having fun with your life and stuff! how could it be bad...?
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idk i mean, she is an atheist and she doesn't agree in what i believe in but she said ill go to hell?...... why would there even be a hell... she's an atheist and they don't believe in anything, right?
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that was silly ignorant and rude. don't worry you are not going to hell if you surf. she must not truly be an atheist if she believes your going to hell. just kill her with kindness.
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Cuppy and friends...Surf on! Don't EVEN listen to some bonehead that says stuff like that!! That's like saying if you are an accountant you are a bad person. Bull!! Surfing is one of the purer sports or passions and anyone that pooh-pooh's that has never dropped in on a left and hit the lip and done an Ollie and a backside goofy foot cutback!..and kept on going. Phooey on them!! Go girls!!
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the bee word ugh......

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What "b" word?
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rhymes with glitch.
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Nobody goes to hell that enjoys what the Lord made us on Earth!

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She probably has something going on with her...that's really stupid to say. Just ignore her. Surfing isn't a sin.

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Did she seem like she was jealous? What ever reason she said that it was nonsense.

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idk she thinks skaters, surfers, musicians, and all these creative people are a waste of time and stuff :/
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That is nonsense. People like that have talent and gifts with what they do and should be respected, not criticized.
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Your "friend" was totally out of line! She's basing her opinion on ignorance and narrow-mindedness. If there is a hell, being a surfer has nothing to do with whether you go there or not.

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Say because you do a sport you're going to hell? That's just like saying going swimming in the ocean or skateboarding means you're going to hell. Tell her shes not your friend, because she obviously isn't if she says that.

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Some people love to tell others that they are going to hell. What they do not realize is that while they are saying this, they are also sinning according to what their religion states is sinning and for that they are going to hell because in some religions all sins are weighted the same. -- Ignore this friend. She just sounds ignorant.

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yes you're right and thanks :)
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As a Christian, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you being a surfer. If you want to drop some knowledge on her: Leviticus states that wearing clothing woven of two different materials is a sin. Also, the Old and New Testament state that we are not to judge others, or we will be judged in the same fashion. Personally: Enjoy those waves!

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thanks :) this helped :)
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How does you being a surfer make you go to hell that makes noooo sense at alll!! Obviously she has no idea what shes talking about!....you cant go to hell for doing what you love god gave you a choice to do what you want with yourlife as long as your not doing anything wrong your okay!....just tell her to shut up!! Like seriously! :) hope I helped?!

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yes! thanks :) this makes me feel a lot better :)
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Ur welkum and im glad!
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Your friend has some odd notions to say the least. Ask her what she's basing this on. I'll bet you anything you like even she won't be able to give you a rational explanation for this belief.

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thanks and i will!
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Wow what a great "friend" Don't listen to her. Shes probably just jealous of your surfing skills.

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haha idk but thanks!
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I don't get what makes all these people think they know who is going to heaven or hell. If they are real, no one on earth knows for sure where anyone will end up. Tell her she must think she knows what god knows, which would in itself be a sin, and she would be the one who goes to hell.

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i know :( she's like this to a lot of my friends who surf and skate :/
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Ask her what sin she thinks your committing? God wants us to enjoy nature. She probably would love to surf too but can't. Don't worry, you're good!

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haha thanks!
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Ask her where in the Bible it is stated that surfing is a sin.

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i will :) thanks!
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You're welcome.
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First off, Bethany Hamilton is a wonderful Christian, an awesome surfer, and an inspiring person.
Second, surfing is not a sin. There is no reference in the Holy Bible that surfing is a sin. Where did your friend get that nonsense? :/
Enjoy the talent God gave you & don't listen to your jealous, judgemental "friend".

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i have no idea but people these days! ugh! i mean, they are very critical and my ex- friend happens to be one of them.
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I understand standing up for your convictions, but only if your convictions are grounded in the Word of God, the Bible.
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PS I wasn't directing my above statement @ you. That was for society in general.
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yeah np! i understand :)
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Did she have any basis for what she said or did she just blurt that out? Either way she's wrong.

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yeah i was just telling her about how she could surf with me if she learned but then she said if you surf, you go to hell and i was just like wtf...
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She must assume there is some kind of lifestyle that goes with surfing or skating and is confused. You've got a lot of great comments that are true. Use your talent and help others. :)
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thanks :) it means a lot
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Surfing is not a sin, maybe she misspoke or "surfing" is a reference to mean something else.

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nope. she meant the plain sport of surfing
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The question really should be Are you a christian? Have you put your faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, and have you asked him into your heart? The Bible says,"For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved." Surfing will not send you to hell, but if you have not asked Jesus into your heart that will! Read the book of Romans it will expain more!

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yeah i absolutely love Jesus and the Catholic faith! she's an atheist but i don''t know why she said i would go to Hell because atheists don't believe in anything right?
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What she said is not true. Bethany Hamilton is a wonderful role model, especially because she's a Christian. :) I'm positive that you won't go to Hell just because you're a surfer. There's no where in the Bible that states surfing is a sin. Help your friend seek the truth. :)

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thanks you! and i'm really trying! she's very stubborn and rejects anything that has to do with Christianity or Jesus!
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Keep trying! You're her Jesus-example! (:
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thank you! :) God bless!
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That's horrible! I'm so sorry. :( What you can do is pray for her, and ask the Lord that she will find Him. Even though she's sorta mean to you, try to witness to her, and tell her about the love of Jesus. Ask God to soften her heart, and to help her realize that she needs Him more than anything. Good luck, I'll be praying for you! ;)
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Thank you so much! i really appreciate that!
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No problem! ;)
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That's dumb... Slap your friend for being stupid

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thats very tempting haha but i can't :P
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I think that even though you friend said that you were going to hell, I would follow my dreams!!

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What was her reasoning? I dont recall any mention of surfing, pro or con, in the bible. She may have meant because you are catholic, not because you are a surfer, because many non-catholics, myself included, see catholicism as very sacriligious and even borderline blasphemous for their worship of Mary and the saints and the way they have elevated a dead human woman to basically be Jesus equal complete with the belief she is herself (retroactively) product of a 'virgin' birth.

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actually we don't worship Mary and the Saints, we venerate them, we honor them, but definitely not worship them. We worship God.
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worship and honor are two different things:)
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By saying you are going to hell, she has passed judgement on you which the bible forbids!

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Ummm.... Perhaps she interprets the Levitical Law 100% literally and adds to it that surf boards can't be made of both synthetic and natural resources? I am quite familiar with almost all crazy Christian ideas as to what the Bible might mean, but I've never heard on related to surfing.

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It's not a Christian idea, she said her "friend" is atheist, which makes even less sense!!
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Amen. She's not worth listening to.
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She's an Atheist too????? This one needs to be locked in a padded room! Makes no sense...lol....
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Just say " By the grace of God you are going to heaven." Ephesians 2:8-9

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Why would you go to hell for a sport that God gave us. Trust me Ephesians 2:8-9 ^^^ so don't worry bout it! :)

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Ask her where in the bible it says that. Cause that's a really ludicrous idea! Does surfing bring you happiness? Does God want us to be happy? It's good excersise too, doesn't hurt anyone... Her response makes no sense!

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Hi Shay, read my comment to our bud Cuppy. I'm just as outraged about this stuff as everyone else. Rediculous!
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I honestly don't know why she said that...just ignore her and tell her "it's not your right to judge, and where in the bible does it say that?"

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unless your a prosisiuse or rostra your job ain't gonna send you to hell

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You can't go to hell unless you sin. Having fun or being physically active are not sins. Maybe she should give it a try and stop shoving her face full of "holy" bread

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Well put! I swear I was thinking this hater is probably jealous she can't get in the wet suit! Lol
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Just because you surf doesn't mean you are going to hell! As long as you believe in God strongly and serve Him every day, you're fine. God tells us to take care of our bodies, and surfing gives you exercise :D

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Ummmm- first and easiest is eliminate her dumb ass from your life....there are too many people to surround yourself with to waste your time on her. I'm so confused as to what her point is??? Funny thing is, I too surfed & the majority of surfers I grew up around were some of the coolest most peaceful people you could meet...when ur in the water with the suns rays shinin down on you, or at the break of dawn (which as a surfer you know the waves are the best ) when the world is still you feel closer to God than ever....so tell this little hater to step back & if she wants to learn how to surf to just do it and quit trying to stop you from it! Eliminate her trash ass....I only see bad things ahead with this HATER....she's jealous! Hang ten doll & go catch a wave!!!Peace!

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thanks i loved your answer :)
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Kindly ask her to point out just one verse in the Bible that says "surfers go to hell." There is NO such verse in there. I have no idea where she got that idea, but it's definitely not the right idea. When she says something like that, challenge her to back up that claim with Biblical evidence. If you have not accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, then she is only partially right. If you have not, then you definitely are on a one-way ticket to hell - but not because you're a surfer, but for the same reason that she is/was, the same reason that I was, and the same reason every other person is/was. Because we are sinners, we have broken God's commandments and we deserve an eternal punishment for it. The surfer part is just nonsense - ignore it!

Hope this helps - Zack

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Ask her where that is in the Bible. Please let me know her answer. PS tell her also the Bible says "judge not lest you be judged". And as both a Christian and a friend she shouldn't judge you.

I agree with some of the comments that you can do better than to have her as a friend, but maybe she said that because she was having some issues of her own. Ask her if she's having any problems you could help her with before you ask her the Bible question.

Good Luck

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some people will say and do whatever they can to bring you down because they are not happy with their own lives.. THis sounds like exactly that.. shes not happy with herself or how her life is going so shes attacking the people around her, and attacking the things those people love. you love surfing so shes doing everything she can to take that away from you to try and make you as miserable as she is.. just feel bad for her. no need for anger or getting bak, its just a cry for atention from someone who is hurting

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shes jealous;) your fine ,im sure

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You could have misinterpreted or your friend made a foolish statement. But the only way to heaven is through trusting in the Lord Jesus Christ as your savior.

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