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My bf keeps hurting me..again and again but I love him what should I do?

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Chris_99

What part of that do you love..the beating? How many times do you need to get hurt before you know it's time to move on :/

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Green now, green always!
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Thank you so much :)
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Uh huh. Anytime!
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Leave!! NOW!! it's only going to get worse. get help, please don't stay with him!! you can find someone who treats like you deserve!

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Leave him, if you love something let it go

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If he hurts you he must not love you enough there are guys that treat you right you deserve better then a guy like that LEAVE him!

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If he is being abusive i have been in your shoes, you need to get out now. It only gets worse. I finally left when i ended up in the hospital. and im pretty sure you do not want that to be you. I know its hard but if he really loved he would not hurt you. good luck
lauren marie

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Ooooooh,
Did you press charges?
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no, he is in the army and it would have ruined his career.
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Sorry tht happened 2 u
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If he honestly loves you and vice versa, then niether one of you would hurt the other. If one is in pain, then it's better to leave that relationship. What kind ofife is that to be with someone who only hurts and and fights you? Ask your self these questions. Do I really love him? Is he worth it all? Answer honestly to yourself.

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Love does not hurt ..... A real man never hits a woman it's only going to get worst , love you enough to walk away and don't look back and take this as a learning experience

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after the loving comes the hospital.(?) if you want your parents to have to put you in a coffin in the ground, do nothing. if you want a real life, get out of the relationship now. report him to the police for domestic violence and have him removed from the home. if you don't live together, that's better. if you do, the courts will grant you a restraining order for your protection and you can have it enforced if he violates it. this is very serious. no one should be abused, be it verbal, emotional or physical. or all 3. Don't waste anytime. if he suspects you may be arranging for help, he may escalate.if you love him so dearly, you need to get him help. reporting him may seem mean, but he will be ordered to get help.He needs it before he kills you! nothing says you can't wait for him to see if the help he gets works, but at least give yourself time to heal! good luck and God Bless.

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find new one !!

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How much of yourself are you willing to give away to a man who obviously cares nothing about you? There's only one you, Susain, and there is only one man meant for you. And I can assure you, it's not him. Stand up and show him that you will not allow anyone to treat you anything less than who you are: a gift from God. You DON'T need a man to tell you how beautiful and amazing you are, because you should already have that confidence in yourself! Do the right thing, be a woman, and love God for everything he made you! You can do this, and I will be praying that God helps you make the right decision. Simply know this: once the past is gone, it's gone forever. 8) God Bless.

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He doesn't deserve your love cause he wouldn't be hurting you and he would be treating you right i think that you should leave him and even tho its going to be hard for you to leave someone that you really love so much but trust me its for the best and you'll find someone way better then him who does deserve your love

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Thats not love sorry

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Stay with him and let him keep hurting you over and over or,remember who you are and that,you love yourself too much to put up with that kind of abuse for the remainder of your relationship,he will not change,if he keeps doing it then,it is who he is and hes been doing it to everyone most of his life so,you need to make a choice,do you want 2 stay and go through this for the rest of your life,it gets worse or,love yourself more and go??

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Get some Self respect and leave him

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Love I think not. Find a man that don't hit but will cherish. Find a man that don't gave anger but has compassion. Real men don't treat women like that. He won't quit. Plz move on!

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Yes, he musta not bn raised right
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Absolutely correct!
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At this point it's not about him and his behaviors,it's about YOU! Why are you subjecting yourself to his abuse continually? You must believe that you deserve better. Until you realize that you're gonna be a whipping post for his crap!

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Nice. Green!
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You need to respect yourself girl. He obviously don't respect you. That punk hurts you one time, it shoulda bn over a long time ago. You need to leave him. If he asks why, say (with confidence and attitude) I'm leavin. I don't got time for you, i wanna guy that shows me he loves me and DOESN'T hurt me. Deuces!

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It's hard to believe the lack of respect people have for themselves anymore.
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Absolutely smh
I pity them though
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