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Why does purity suck so much?

A medical condition prohibits me from drinking, taking drugs, etc. It would be even more detrimental to my health than most people. I can't seem to get together with someone for "only benefits" without falling for them. When I have been in a committed relationship, it gets soooooooooooo boring. Because I dont fool around or drink, most people think I am some religious nut, which couldnt be further from the truth. What gives? Why does purity suck so much?

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GodzChild

Are you kidding? I'm a virgin, and I couldn't e more happy. Like I told..........whoever it was that I told. Your love is like a rose. Every time you have sex with someone you don't really love, you're just tearing away a petal, until eventually when the right one comes along, all you have left to give her is a small chunk of stem from what was once a beautiful rose. Why would you want to do that to someone? And not only that, but would you really want to give her an STD you could pick up along the way? (No offense) 8) God Bless

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They do make condoms to prevent STD's but I still dont have the heart to use people like that. Thank you for your response. I guess I am just looking for re-assurance.
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Great way of putting it! And I'm glad to see I'm not the only teen in America that believes that.
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That's why I just followed you! 8) God Bless
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No problem, Miguel. And just a thought, my mom got pregnant on protection sooooooooo..........................yeah.
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ur awsome
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Thank you
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For some people, they say purity sucks because they have not completely adjusted to it. Thus, it becomes difficult to follow or do what they are meant to do. Again, for others they enter in to purity even though they have not made a complete dedication by themselves thus they lack the willingness.

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It's not hard, quit being a whiner

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Hang on...this is a chance for you to change your life...I know you want to get laid and to get high but you can't because these things might be enjoyable in the beginning but they'll destroy you later...trust me...they'll destroy big time... you have to resist your lust for life and change your lifestyle to the better.
Your life will be better...just hang on and remember it's a second chance...
Stay straight N' virgin :)
Stop drinking and doing drugs :)
May Allah(God) guide you to the right path :)
Have a nice day :)

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Thank you for your comment. It just seems that being pure should feel so much better than it does.
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Don't worry my friend...things will be better for you :)
May Allah guide you to the right path :)
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If you need anything don't hesitate just tell me...that's why I'm here :)
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Good answer, A-Rash! Green!
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If you had only saved yourself for your husband/wife then you would truly see that though purity is long and may seem boring the ends justify the wait!

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Its not that "purity sucks" its that you haven't found the right person to be with yet.. but when you do it will be worth it because they will have the same vales..

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Thank you.
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