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How do I get my fiances friend to stop trying to convert my religious beliefs?

I believe in Scientology, and she is a christian and kept trying to hand me a Holy Bible and a cross necklace. Then harassed me saying I will go to Hell, etc etc etc.

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First, speak to your fiance. If she is not clearly in the know of what is going on, make sure she knows. That's the last thing you need is to have the wedding broke off b/c you went berserk on her friend. If she's not able to speak to her for you, let her know that the next time it's all fair game (of course be tactful with how you word everything). So the next time that this freak of nature tries to convert you, politely decline on the first try, then go nuts on her.

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Thank you.
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You know I was starting to like what you had to say I was saying now this person has knowledge but I guess we don't get every answer right.
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@ truker Rude much? If someone is continually harassing you, being nice doesn't always work.
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No but your saying pay evil with evil theres other ways of saying no thank you besides she is right according to the bible if you have not accepted Jesus you will pay a price and be cast out so should you condemn her? And justify him to go nuts on her? Because she is doing what we all have been called to do spread the truth? When Christ walked the earth he said the same thing to believe in Him . Would you go nuts on him for telling you that I'm sure that maybe she is going the wrong way about trying to get him saved but that's not a way for you to give advice like that.
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Did you even read his question? He even said that she was harassing him. I've read some of his responses and I'm quite sure that he's already tried that approach, and that WAS part of my answer. But if she continues to harass, he basically has two options... either sit there and listen to her constant HARASSMENT or put her in her place. So get off your high horse. If you didn't like my answer, no need to comment on it, you should have just left your own politically correct answer, but you didn't so I can only assume you posted to start a fight.
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AND, instead of being NICE like you supposedly want him to do, you come on here leaving a negative comment. Kinda goes against in line with your "pay evil with evil". Hypocrite much?
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Your right God bless you and good night time to put my horse up
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tell her to buck off! this is a form of harrassment and you can sue her and get a restraining order. im sure you wont as this will cause problems with your fiance but she is seriously crossing some lines.

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Thank you, but I would never sue her.
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Fianc or no, take legal action. And if your fianc doesn't support you at least emotionally in your taking legal action, ditch him too.
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I would never sue her .
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Tell her thank you but God wouldn't want her to harass you. We all have our beliefs.

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just start talking about what you believe they might back off

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I don't want to offend her.
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you are being to nice but she shouldn't be offended you have your belief and she has hers
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Set boundaries!

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I'm sorry this happens to you. I'm a Christian myself, but I can tell you that we, as Christians, don't try to force our religion on people, if they don't want to hear about it at the time. Also, her saying that your going to Hell is not being a great example. God called us to go & make disciples, not force people into our religion, nor to judge people based on their actions. Obviously, she's concerned for your well being, but shes not going about it the right way.

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Thank you. Perhaps you are right.
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Tell the nut to take a hike..

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it's simple. Kill her friend. Jk but it's not ok. You have to let her know your religion is better... for you. If you really wanna send a message the next time she hands you a bible EAT IT!

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