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when is the best time to have sex but not get pregnant

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No time! Using Protection is always the best way to avoid pregnancy. Don't play guessing games with fertility, there's too much at risk.

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Wow! 20 green / 00 red! I'm jealous! :D
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Hehe ! Ikr ! ^^
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26 ;)
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Well said JD!!
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when your married

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That doesn't make any sense...when is the best time to have sex and not get pregnant..why do you want to know the right time to have sex but not get prego

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I want to know because i want to go natural, no contraceptives
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This question doesn't make much sense but iThink this could be an answer ; When your married . But just use a condom or so if you don't want to get pregnant .

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After he put the condom on. Nothing else will be nearly as safe. Sperm can live several days or more inside a woman. And the woman's cycle may change.

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Condoms can brake , tho .. So iThink the most safest way if you really don't ever want kids is to get your tubes tied .
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Even that doesn't work. There's documented proof of a couple who somehow had 3 more children after both of them "had their tubes tied". And yes, they were all his!
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Nothing is 100% I guess but my suggestion is better than guessing where one is during their cycle.
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@CoolMom44- How's that even possible , tho ? I've never heard that could happen before ..

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@Rainsurf- Ohkayee yea iKno what you mean .
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The closer you are to ovulation the easier it is to get pregnant. Remember that those little guys (sperm) can live for days. Ovulation GENERALLY takes place in the middle of your cycle. PLEASE do not use this as a means of birth control; I can guarantee it will NOT work. You may not have access to birth control pills but anyone can buy a condom! No excuse!

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Menopause.

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There's a great answer!
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Thanks:)
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Bahahaha lmao
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@kittycatmeow: Glad you liked it :)
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Dont even have sex CRAZY srry

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Middle age.

If you're talking about using the rhythm method to find a "safe" part of your menstrual cycle you should be aware that it doesn't work.

The medical term for women who practise Vatican Roulette is "mothers".

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Absolutely, Dozy. A good friend of mine had #7 last summer at the age of 47. Talk about being nervous if the baby would have problems due to advanced maternal & paternal age! Plus, stay at home daddy was originally going to get a full time job with the previous "baby" finally in school all day.
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To be fair it's actually somewhat effective when done properly, the problem is that very few people are able to put forth the effort to do it properly, and it's very easy to make mistakes, so it's definitely not the most reliable form of birth control one can choose. Hubby and I have used it for years (we've been married for 16 years), and the only times I've ever gotten pregnant is when we were trying to.

Having said all that though, it's one thing for a married couple who doesn't necessarily care one way or the other if it fails to use it, but for someone who absolutely doesn't want to get pregnant, it is definitely not the method of birth control they should be choosing.
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@coolmom: I once saw one of those birthday booklets made up with cartoons. This one was called "Being 40" and each page started with exactly that. The page I remember is that one that said, "Being 40 is better than being pregnant."

On the other hand, my mother was 42 when I was born and I have a younger brother. We were most unwelcome additions -- which I understand now, but fretted over when I was a kid.

@Sephira: I'll have to accept that recommendation, though I've never heard anybody else recommend it. I have no personal experience. Maybe we should have gone down that road -- we had five kids before we found out what caused it.
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It's definitely not something I'd recommend to anyone who absolutely didn't want to get pregnant, too much of a margin for error.

Also since Ask doesn't have any way for us to send messages - didn't know if you'd seen this one or not, and if you might want to add your wonderful thoughts to it, since if I remember correctly it's an interest of yours...

http://www.ask.com/ja-question?id=18733641
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Tnanks, Sephira. Yep, it is very interesting.
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When you are married. Use a condom.

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First how old are you? The best time Is when your not ovulating. But its best to use protection. Birth control condoms and if you don't use any you can take the morning after pill. There always option and don't give in to pressure from your boyfriend/girlfriend!

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The truth is, whenever you want to. It's your freedom to choose to with protection or not. Don't listen to the people that say you gotta wait until marriage because its your right to choose.

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When your already pregnant...*creepy

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Actually, not always. I had a coworker who had to have monthly ultrasounds due to previous problems, who conceived a second child 10 weeks into her pregnancy. I guess now we know why some twins are so much smaller than their wombmate.
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0_0... GROSS
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!!!Married!!!

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Never do that! Have sex when you are ready to take care of a child.

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There is no time to have sex and not get pregnant. If you have to ask this you are to young to be having sex.

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Never, if you dont want to get pregnant. Sorry...

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When he puts the condom on!not only are you risking pregnancy but also STD's. would you really want to tell any other possible bf ummm I have syphilis. no right. don't trust boys.

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To risky don't put your life and guys life in danger and child possibly wait until your married and ready and prepared for a chold

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lol wear a condom and use birth control

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Still a chance of getting pregnant and/or catching a STD........
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STD's are rare these days
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When you're ready to possibly have to take care of a baby and/or deal with an STD on a financial, physical and emotional level. That's when the time is right... Which means obviously not right now.
Even when you use a condom and Birth control, there's still a risk of getting pregnant and/or contracting an STD. NOTHING is 100% safe except NOT being sexually active... Oral sex can also cause you to contract STD's... Intercourse, well, obviously that can cause pregnancy and/or STD's.... Trust me when I tell you that 30 seconds of "pleasure" if you think that's what you're getting... It's not worth the hassle and consequences that may possibly follow.

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30 seconds of pleasure?

Someone needs a new partner.
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By the way the question is asked I'm figuring it's teens that are involved... I'm talking about an obvious lack in experience... Not about my man!
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Lol... That's funny though!
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Sorry, couldn't resist.
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Yeah... Yeah... Whatever rain! Lol! I should have said 31 seconds! J/k
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What the heck was in my last comment that got it removed? How completely random.
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Never there's always a chance

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When he's wearing a condom and she's on the pill. Why would you want to have unprotected sex anyways - you may end up with the gift that keeps on giving

I have to add - I'm not an advocate for premarital sex but come on now really the best answer tou can come up with is "when you're married"
preaching abstinence doesn't work teaching preventative care is more effective

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Wear a Condom Get Spermacide Birth Control And Pull Out Works Like a Charm :) You're Welcome

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Bizarre. This question is 7 months old. Strange glitch.
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If you are on a 28-32 day cycle avoid days 10 to 18 of your cycle starting with the first day of your last period. If you haven't had a period in awhile [few months], consult a doctor then.

I'd like to point at that all of you are "assuming" that this person is asking about "unprotected sex". No where in the question does it say "unprotected" or "without condoms". Not to mention telling someone to wait for sex until they are married never works. Look at the last 100 years and you'll get my point.
So if "marriage" or "using condoms" is your answer to this, then you are wasting your time commenting. Those are "givens". For all you know they are using condoms and just want to know the days to avoid in the event a condom breaks. Your personal views and bias shouldn't be used to answer a question. Just answer it and move on.
*Think Outside The Box*

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The question is nine months old. She's probably a mom already.
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Q: If I want to do sex without Protection then is there any safe time to sex.?
Because a lady not be a part of pregnancy there is some day during that day a lady can got pregnant.

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