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I'm talking to a guy i'm in school with and that is also my ex-boyfriend. I really like him but my friends dont. There is another guy that is also my ex-boyfriend that wants to get back together to tho. He is in a detention center down south right now and wont be back until the end of this month and i want to be with him and the other guy that im talking to now.......can you help me choose?

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sounds like u chase after the scums

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how?
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the way u described them both they both sounded like no good scumbags that will break your heart
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Why are they your ex's? How long ago did you brake up? These two will answer your questions.
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they are my ex's b/c i thought i was moving and didnt want a long distance relation ship
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relationship is one word..
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And they want you back? Those guys are only looking to get in your pants, you know that right?
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yea sorry for the miss spell......both of them have done the whole purity thing so i dont think thats it. and im not trying to make myself sound bad but most likely i would be the one wanting that from them. not the other way around.
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Why is the one in detention?
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stop typin stuff in my comment thing write ur own thing and carry on ur conversation somewhere else
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his brother said he did something when he didnt and they held him for it.
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lol sorry.
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........ok?
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your friends wont be dating him.... you will

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yea i know but that doesnt help me choose. + they only like the one thats in the detention center a little better because hes cuter
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Seriously? So yesterday I met this guy he's super cute, but he's in prison because he raped a girl. But he's cute so that'll make up for it.
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????? mean
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The detention center should be your first clue to not date him... He's trouble and will only bring you down with him... Find a good guy that will be somebody some day.. Instead of the loser in detention, he will end up dead or on prison
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bradahh

Ha! Want to be with a guy in a detention center? You're swinging for the fences aren't ya!? Why not focus on yourself and school so you can get into a good college and make a life for yourself. Then bring a guy who is worthy of you into your life.

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im not in school
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bradahh
You said a guy in your school though...?
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lol
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G.E.D. school. we call it VOtech
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bradahh
Ok well that's still school. You can go to college with a GED. So why not just focus on your education and not what loser guy to date. You dropped out of high-school already...don't neglect your education twice. You should have some goals.
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BeautifulMemory94

Nice fake profile pic(;

Anyhow, you're falling for the wrong guys. Wait until you're in College to find a decent boyfriend. Overall, education is more important than anything. Would you rather remain with no idea on how to do things, or not? Guys can wait and you can wait. Always go with what your friends say though. If they don't like him, then they obviously can tell what's wrong with the guy that you're talking to right now. Don't ignore your friends. Listen to them.

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BeautifulMemory94
I can care less of what you have to say to me, but use your own pics. If you want to prove that you are real, then upload another profile picture of yourself.
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ummm u my stalker or something? how u know that aint me?
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lol
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BeautifulMemory94
@JenABoo Damnnn lol You are so fake. You can't even upload a real profile picture of yourself. Why would I want to be your stalker? I hate fakes, and people who can't be honest at all. It's obvious that it ain't you. The Internet's half my life, so I would know.
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so....? ur point is? urs aint real so why the hell are u fucking bitching at me for something that u doing? and plus i dont want any horney old grandpas having fun with my pic anyways
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You two are just hilarious!
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random people that dont know shit need to stop bitching at me. u to fake with no life b/c like u said its all spent on the internet
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it wont show my damn comment
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I wonder why?
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:p
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BeautifulMemory94
Seriously wasn't me -.- I didn't report any comments. Ooh! This is so exciting. I'm just having fun going at it with this fake.
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what? i dont think u finished ur sentence. well thats what internet will do to ur brain
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yellow_submarine

Friends before lovers. The Beatles didn't follow this and they broke up :*(

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:'(sad face
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The guy your friends don't like. It's not their boyfriend, its yours. And plus, I personally wouldn't want to date some one who's in a detention center. Just sayin'.

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maybe.....
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Maybe?
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he's what my friends call a "personal diary" for me. he has been there for me through everything and i just feel that if i turn him down that i wont be holding up my side
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Go with the one not in Juvi...he doesn't sound like a winner but you can always date you're ex before the other kid gets out, maybe you'll get bored with each other, besides you can't just have one, you gotta taste the rainbow!

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lol nice way of putting it but he's not in juvi......its like a lock down for the teenage crimanals
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I was just saying I'd rather be with someone not in jail...lol
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This is how I make choices about a variety of topics, not just BF.
It makes you take the time to think about your feelings, wants, needs, realities; long and short term.
Take a piece of paper. Write down the issue at the top; then make a long line down the middle of the page, from top to bottom.
On the left, write in the pluses about the issue; on the right the minuses that you can think about the issue.

When done, read them to yourself; which list is longer? That's the route you should take.
So in this case, if being with BF had too many negatives, move on, find someone else, and remember what you wrote down about the pluses In a relationship, don't lower your standards just to say you have a BF.

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wow thats kinda smart
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lol, I thought you said you were in school.
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VOtech is not school!!!!!
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Its a G.E.D. program, I know. Did you go to school?
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yea to like 9th grade
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Are you kidding me? How old are you?
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17
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Go back to school.
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Neither one of these guys is a good choice.
I'm wondering why your parents -- dad especially -- hasn't had a li'l chat with you about this.
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War Eagle!!

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i kinda dont have parents sooooo
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Follow ur heart

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Is his brother a druggy?

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yeppers
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The other one, thats bad business to get into, trust me.
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:( grrrr
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I'm serious, don't be a baby about it, put all the factors together. You don't want to be with him.
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ok.....
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