A lot of guys spend too much time in the shower, using the luffa and shaving their chest hair. Then spend 30 minutes doing their hair, choosing the right scent to wear. Then they spend a lot of time to choose what color socks to wear and what shoes/sandals/sneakers. Then they go out and strut their stuff, like a cockbird trying to find a mate. My goodness, take a shower with Ivory soap, be proud of your chest hair, run a comb through your hair, throw on some clean clothes, go out and be a man.
It's not so much that there aren't real men out there but the fact that most girls (not all) oversee the "real men" and go for the ones that have "swag" plus it's not like there are many real women out there .... The majority of both genders are filled with fake people
Take a look at what you define as a "real man" and ask yourself these questions:
What are his interests? - Start to hang out where you would have shared interests (It's important to be able to connect with him on more than just a visual level).
What are his moral values?
Does he value family or is he a loner?
Is he financially responsible?
What about his education?
Does he have goals that he wants to accomplish?
Is he confident (not arrogant) or is he wimpy?
Have you discovered these things about yourself? If not, then you might want to focus on these things about yourself and eventually that "real man" will find you. Men love being conquerors and want to do the chasing (it's instinct), not to be chased. Where would be the challenge in that?