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Annoying former friend? (see below)

okay, so I had this friend, let's call her K. she was my best friend from 2nd-6th grade. during sixth grade K started to really get on my nerves and soon I couldn't handle being around her, so I stopped being friends with her. luckily I didn't have any classes with her last year (and also didn't have a Facebook.) well this year I have a class with her and a Facebook, and she has sent me a couple messages asking if we're friends again. I'm better off not being friends with her because she always made me feel bad (she was basically what you'd call a poisonous friend.) recently she sent me another message asking if we can be friends. I don't want to sound mean, but I want to her to get it through her head that I don't want to be friends. suggestions?

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CAN'T YOU GET IT THRU YOUR HEAD THAT IM BETTER OF WITHOUT YOU?!?!?! NOW LEAVE ME ALONE, Btw Have A Nice Day! :)

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This made me smile...thanks :)
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Your Welcome :)
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The wheels on the bus goes round and round -- round and round .... the end ....

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Just tell her how u feel. So let's say she has been dissing u, or making rude comments, u tell her she has been doing that. If she says no I havent, or prove it, list some things she has said to u. If she still denies then say ok if ur not telling the truth and ur gonna lie in this friendship, I REALLY don't need u around. Done. That's what I did with this girl and she left me alone plus she didn't feel bad cuz ur not saying anything offensive towards the person.. Hope this helps:)

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I can try this if she bugs me in person again. Thanks :)
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No problemo :)
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Don't be mean. You don't need to stoop to her level. Just be "busy" every time she contacts you or wants to see you. Don't answer her on FB, don't return her calls, and if she asks you why, just say you've been really busy. Sooner or later, she'll get the message. BTW, I think it's great that you're able to recognize a toxic person. A lot of people get trapped for years in toxic relationships-good for you for not wanting to be one of them!

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This is a good idea, I'll probably try that. And thanks :)
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It's not about how long a friend was there it's when they were their for you in your hard times !!

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I agree, I have a 2 friends I've only known for two years and they are my best friends. She was never there for me, not a good friend. Thanks for answering .
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