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ok my best friend is stuck on the past. me and him got into some big trouble 2 years ago and he got took out of our school and got sent back to my school. his mom thinks I'm a bad influence on him. and he still hangs with me behind his moms back. but he is scared that his mom will find out and his life will go back to shit. how can I convince him that it's all right? ps I had no idea what to label this under.

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Well, you shouldn't interfere with his mother's wishes, because that could land you into more trouble. Tell your friend to inform their mom about how you would like to regain your friendship. If she thinks that you are a bad influence on him, then that is her opinion, but don't take advantage of that opinion if she gives her son permission to hang out with you. Try to show her that your a good kid, that you aren't a bad influence. Sooner or later, she may warm up to you :)
Hope I helped, and good luck :)

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You did help :)
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Okay, well tell him that he shouldn't care what his mom says but then again he should, it's good to please your parents by listening to them. If you show them that you're respectful or convince them that you're not a bad influence that'll be good. Just try really hard to impress them if you don't want to lose your friend. I let that happend to me before & I so regret that!

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But his mom doesn't know we hang out at all. It's been a secret thing she said she'd call the cops on me if she saw him hang out with me.
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Oh wow, well then you need to try & find a way to tell them that you two starte hanging out again. If you can't & they really don't like you to the point where they won't accept you as his friend then you shouldn't get involved with it, especially if he's worried about getting caught.
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True thanks for your help
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You're welcome.
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Well, you really can't. You got him kicked out of school. There is nothing you can do about it except being good and dont do anything bad around him. Maybe he will think you changed. But his mother..... yeah just dont let her find out..

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Wow you sound like your a huge a$$h0le and not a very good friend that kid don't need to hang out with you

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Wow you sound judgmental I wouldn't want to hang out with you myself.
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Lol ok i really don't care I'm just saying
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Well, what you should do is act more mature around his mother act really nice and be a good influence if you dont his mom cant break your guys as friends if you guys are truly good friends his mom will understand that is was the past and you can also fight back saying you cant end us as friends!!! Good luck!!! Hope this helps!!!

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