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I was going out with this guy for like 2 years! Then I broke up with him and went out with this other guy that cut off his finger because I was in a relationship so now we have been going out with him for a year and my ex has been bothering me he keeps asking "When are you breaking up with him??" and I don't really know!! My ex is really funny and we always buy each other stuff for Christmas :3 then my boyfriend right now is protective and we went on our first date :) and I don't want to hurt my ex feelings what should I do??

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Chris_99

Man this is some Jerry springer $*it

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I know I'm so confused lol
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I know right!
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He's here all week
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You cut off your ex's finger?! Um.... I think you're too young to be in a relationship by the sounds of it'

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Nooo!! He cut off his own finger!! And I'm not to young I'm 15!!(I know I look small)
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Actually, 15 can be too young to fate depending on the person. And why would you want to date someone who cut off their finger? Just consider the guys too, when you're a teenage boy, hormones are a lot different. (Sorry to get all weird on ya') So the boys might be the ones that are too young to date.
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I know I'm sorry it's just I don't want to say no when they ask me out so I keep saying yes but I really dont want to be in a relationship till im 17 :/
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Then that's their problem. Not yours. They're pressuring you to do something you don't want to do. It's really hard to focus on your future, friends, school, family (ect.) when you're dating in high school. You need to be brave and stick up for yourself. I understand that it feels good to be in a relationship and be flatter and given attention to from a boy, but that doesn't make it the best decision. :) Hope this helps!
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Thanks I'm going to try to break up with them and get rid of them I don't need them I really need to focus on school
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Okay! Sounds good. It's also fine to continue being friends! And if either boy becomes aggressive tell an adult immediately to make sure you're safe!
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Okay thanks and besides I really don't want to be pregnant ANY time soon!
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Lol! Good for you! Haha! I'm making a KIK because my friend is making me. I'll message you to see how that works out! :)
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ok how much do you love your current boyfriend? if you love him more then your ex then stay with your current boyfriend

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Okay but he never texts me my ex boyfriend even text me more then him..
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some guys like to text and some dont doesnt mean he doesnt love you at all
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Okay thanks for the help
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how old are you?!?!?!

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15 turning 16 in like 3 months :/
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How old are you? you can't be older than 14... why do you have so much relationship drama at such a young age? there will be plenty of time for that later in life.

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Yeah I know I'm 15 turning 16 soon I really hate it sorry to waste your time..
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yonna125

Your ex is probably jealous and wants you back.

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I agree thanks:)
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no problem :)
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Umm how old?

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