If you keep using the zodiac signs to rely on to pick your mate, you just might pass up the one who is truly meant just for you. Try relying on getting to know the person, and with time you should know if their right for you or not. If you've had bad experiences with certain signs remember that was that individual and you shouldn't let that rotten apple spoil the rest of the bunch!
Why dont you just be scared of living,driving,walking outside,going to work,do you see where im going with this,if your scared of dating cuz of a stupid zodiac sign,you will never be happy or,have a life,you only have 1 life,why waste it on such a meaningless thing,opposites attract,a sign dont mean jack,its whats in their heart,not the month they were born in.
Sometimes that zodiac stuff sounds true. Ive known people who just didnt seem to be a good match for me at all. And their zodiac sign would say this person does not go well with my sign. So maybe your not crazy for seeing things this way. I wouldnt worry about it. But if a person was trying hard enough to be with me and i thought they were a good person i would not let their sign get in my way.