Some posts, comments, answers questions NEED to be removed to keep this site clean, happy and positive as it is. Sanity has to maintained and order must be preserved. If chaos was to let run this community, the mission and the vision of the whole Ask community would have been for nothing.
Just imagine Gotham City without Batman? THAT'S how Ask.com would be if it was not MODERATED as it is right now.
And to answer the question. you should try facebook, twitter, answers.com or yahoo!answers
ask.com is not a BBS or a chat room. It is a place to ask questions and get answers. If you are having problems then you are either not following community guidelines, or you are expecting a different experience. Contact customer support if you have any legitimate problems, concerns, or complaints
If there's a better place, then I haven't heard of it. I barely ever get removed, but when I do, I just move on with my life. It's not like it was your life's work that was erased, it's just an answer or comment......