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Do you have to be in love with someone to sleep with them ?

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You don't have to be, but if you aren't in love with them it's just a bodily function. It is so much more than that when you have that deep connection of love and mutual respect. If you have any morals at all, intercourse without emotional attachment merely leaves you feeling guilty and alone.

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Nope. That's the beauty (if you can call it that) of lust.

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Yeah, unless you're a slutttt

Hmm, wonder if all the t's get me off the hook? We'll find out.

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haha looks like it did :3
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Yeah, looks like it lll
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Hmm... shitttt
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He-hey that works too!
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no you can be wasted or just plain horny

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THAT would depend upon your personal/moral convictions.

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Ever heard of a prostitute falling in love with her clients??

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All the time! I mean, no.
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no , its your body . im not going to judge , but if its your first time , then id wait to be in love . that rhymed lololol

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no, not in this society, i would prefer it if only people who were married together slept together, but the world today encourages "no Strings Attached" sex

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uh duh! yes!! you would be a horrible person for sleeping with someone you weren't in love or married with

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I don't think they would be a horrible person, they would just have made a mistake. But I agree with you.
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THANK YOU AMANDA !!!
You win the prize for the only answer that made any sense at all
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thats not true at all !
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@xbaybay16x so you say its ok to be a sluttttttt? haha
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Ever heard of friends with benefits?

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What a bunch of nonsense answered to a very dumb question.
Think of it this way loser, what if the female in this situation was your daughter? ( a legitimate daughter, not one that you had out of lust)

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if its a dumb question , why did you answer ?
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Because I am in awe of the stupidity, just had to vent
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gee thanks, dewite.
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You should be married before you sleep with someone, so yes you have to be in love with them.

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I agree with Farmer GirlMaryJo on the emotional issue. But as far as the morality of the subject, I have a different view. I think it's fine IF and only if:

You are both consenting adults
You are both RESPONSIBLE! That means understanding your own bodies, understanding what consequences might come from sexual activity, and knowing how to prevent those consequences from happening.

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What a coincidence. I don't understand you either. You think a child born of lust is illegitimate? Should we just throw those ones away?
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You're right, you don't understand
A CHILD SHOULD NOT BE BORN FROM LUST, it should be born from love so it will receive love
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Sure. Children SHOULD be born from love. But all too often they're not. I was just wondering what you think of the kids who are NOT born from love. Your post above kind of made it sound like those kids don't matter.

What I was saying in my post is that I agree that sex is better if you have love. But if you're going to have sex when you're not in love, be responsible so you you don't end up with a child of lust. Or anything else.
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There's no law against it, unless one of you is underage. It's not my thing, but feel free to "sleep" around if it makes you happy, you're the one who has to live with your behavior, not me! :)

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My opinion is yes so it's comfortable for you and you partner and it's like having a nerd sleep in your bed with you. You don't want that

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Sleep as in sleep, or sleep as in sex?
Because normal sleep, no.
Sex sleep, probably (and it'd be best to do after you get married...)

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Not really

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Happiness cannot be achieved without following the rules of happiness so if you are seeking more than just a little exercise you might consider the more intense value of love :)

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Hey whatever floats your boat.

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One night stands

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No. But you should. And love doesn't come until after marriage, everything else is lust and infatuation. 8) God Bless

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Nope

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It's their choice but that's not a good choice in my opinion

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I personally believe you should be in love and married.

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The question here is it only about sex ?
1)if the answer is yes, will human be different from animals as both need sex?

2) From my opinion it is not only about sex, As the differential border from my perspective is the presence of love and sensation which mainly develope the relationship to the sex stage.

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Hahaha. not at all. i never loved the guys i slept with.. but it's your choice. (: Just don't be uncomfortable and be confident that it is what you want. (:

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Yeah. I mean NO. You dont have to be. Commitments can be too much burden for a few. For those, no strings attached is the best choice.

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