If he can't then he should. I believe in statuatory rape. I had a similar situation but i was a tad younger- i ended up messed up from it. Noone could tell me ANYTHING about whether we were good for each other..... I LOVED him. But he had the upper hand- and he took COMPLETE advantage of it in more ways than one. A romantic/sexual relationship between a 16 year old and a 20 year old is unnatural and wrong. There is a world of a difference within those 4 years. And i was verrrry mature for my age. But was in over my head. And everyone knew it but me.