We all make mistakes and all of us are far from perfect. We have our ups and downs but the key is how we choose to let we CHOOSE to let it affect us. We can be down on ourselves and feel bad or we can learn from our mistakes and get better and make sure we don't do them again!! That we choose to get back up and not stay down!! Like my favorite quote goes " Life is 10% what happens to us 90% how we choose to respond" -Lou Holtz
except your mistakes but learn from them and try not to do them again..I use to feel the same way..everyone at school called me ugly..but im not look at my pic..honey don't hate your self..everyone is beautiful..Im 14 & I know if u dont love your self no one else will love u..I LOVE U..and even though I don't know u..I feel your pain..pray and ask God to help you through your struggling.He helped me.. :)
Otter, I am your friend. You know that. This will all work out in a few days. I read what you told us too. This wasn't something that you thought would happen so it has caught you off guard. You will see this will all work out even better than it was before. We will support everybody involved and help get things better for you. Wait until Monday until things can get started getting fixed. You are not dumb. Don't hate yourself because we are all here liking you SO MUCH, and we all can't be wrong. Try to get some rest and we can all help on Monday if you need us. We'll ALL BE HERE FOR YOU !!
Don't be so hard on yourself - don't use the word "hate" when referring you yourself - you can dislike something you did - but that's an action - it's not "you" - it's just a mistake you can learn from and avoid doing again. Just for a moment, pretend you are a parent and you heard your child make that statement about themselves - what advice would you give your child to help them stop punishing themselves? Now snap back to reality and take that advice yourself.
Otter, you are immersed in people that love the heck out of you. So don't hate yourself. Change the things about you that you hate and move the chains forward for a first down. We all like you. You can like you too!!