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Otter2357

Why do I hate my self?

I have been really dumb lately...

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BeautifulNitemare

Aww, how could not love those otter eyes? Believe me, everybody has a bad one or so...you are the best ever. Besides, I am an animal therapist..:)

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Thanks :D
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aww hey beautiful
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lovemydodge
Green. Always nice to see someone willing to help someone out.
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The Beaut could always cheer me up
If I got bummed out real bad. She's the sweetest!!
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BeautifulNitemare
Aww, my buds. Lov'in you
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And right back at ya!
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Don't hate yourself otter! There's no reason to hate yourself, I'm sure you didn't do anything wrong ;)

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Sigh. Yep
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Otter2357
Sigh......
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Awwwww are you ok???? I feel bad, if you need to talk we are here for you!
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Ahh, we all have dumb moments:(. But you have no reason to hate yourself. A lot of ask users like the otter:)).

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ggggggg
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FirstBorn1
I second your answer!
Greeenie!
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Accept your mistakes, learn from them n move on,eventually u will be a better stronger much smarter you;)

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No!no!no!no...don't say that! Everyone gets "drain bamage" every once in a while :P

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Otter2357
But not like this
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What did you do?
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Otter2357
I dont want to talk about the story but if you want to see it look on the first questions on the top of my answered questions and go to me and then look in the comments...
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I'm confused!!! Sorry,I'm still new...I don't understand the who is who part :(
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Otter2357
1.)Go to my profile
2.)go to my Q and A
3.)go to the question that is on top
4.)go to me and the you will see the comments
5.) click the comments and read it.
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You had someones pic...how?
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Otter2357
I was trying to get him back I guess he did and I blew it :( he left forever I was his number one fan and he left all cuz of me :(
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People need time to cool off...I don't know him, so Im not much help :( I'm sure people always come back :)
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Otter2357
Nope he not ever he deleted his account and everything!
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Awww...I'm sorry! :(
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Otter2357
He said it was for the best. ;(
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Maybe he will get over it and come back....people do get over things :)
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SalvadoranDude

2040 questions answerd and over 3000 likes? Id say your pretty awesome!!;)

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I like you,Otter :)
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SalvadoranDude
Everyone likes Otter;)
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Thanks :)
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SalvadoranDude
Otter! Just be yourself! Your not passion for glory! Your you!
You came here to help people... So thats what you should do!
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Thanks :)
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lovemydodge

We all make mistakes do not hate yourself. Take the mistakes as a learning experience.

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BeautifulNitemare
Dodge is always such a good person
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Thank you nitemare you are a great person as well.
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how so?

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Otter2357
I don't want to talk about it...
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lol...you asked !
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Otter2357
I dont want to talk about the story of this problem...
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Otter2357
I just want to have some advice...
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cant give advice without knowing the angle...sorry, i'm a laser programmer so i need an angle..
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Don't hate ur self ?!! Ur awesome!!

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Thanks :)
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Anytime :) hope u feel better soon :)
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Thank you again:)
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We all make mistakes and all of us are far from perfect. We have our ups and downs but the key is how we choose to let we CHOOSE to let it affect us. We can be down on ourselves and feel bad or we can learn from our mistakes and get better and make sure we don't do them again!! That we choose to get back up and not stay down!! Like my favorite quote goes
" Life is 10% what happens to us 90% how we choose to respond"
-Lou Holtz

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Thanks :)
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BeautifulNitemare
Green B
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Yea I understand buddy I get so down on myself all the time I feel I never do enough but it gets better I promise everything's going to work
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It was just one of those days! No worries Otter! : )

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Thanks :)
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BeautifulNitemare
Had loads of them
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except your mistakes but learn from them and try not to do them again..I use to feel the same way..everyone at school called me ugly..but im not look at my pic..honey don't hate your self..everyone is beautiful..Im 14 & I know if u dont love your self no one else will love u..I LOVE U..and even though I don't know u..I feel your pain..pray and ask God to help you through your struggling.He helped me.. :)

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Hi China
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wats up JD
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BeautifulNitemare
Hey China beautiful as ever
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wats up thanks
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BeautifulNitemare
You sweetheart, always you :3
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lol..
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Otter, I am your friend. You know that. This will all work out in a few days. I read what you told us too. This wasn't something that you thought would happen so it has caught you off guard. You will see this will all work out even better than it was before. We will support everybody involved and help get things better for you. Wait until Monday until things can get started getting fixed. You are not dumb. Don't hate yourself because we are all here liking you SO MUCH, and we all can't be wrong. Try to get some rest and we can all help on Monday if you need us. We'll ALL BE HERE FOR YOU !!

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FirstBorn1
Such kind words. You are such a good friend. :)
Greeeeenie!
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Don't be so hard on yourself - don't use the word "hate" when referring you yourself - you can dislike something you did - but that's an action - it's not "you" - it's just a mistake you can learn from and avoid doing again. Just for a moment, pretend you are a parent and you heard your child make that statement about themselves - what advice would you give your child to help them stop punishing themselves? Now snap back to reality and take that advice yourself.

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BeautifulNitemare
You are so intelligent
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Ok - marry me - it's all over - you're the one. ;-)
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BeautifulNitemare
On one knee please <3
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Oval or square cut - number of carets as well - white gold or other banding metal / colorations? Also, a thin or wider band - and do you prefer plain or shaper cut smaller embedded diamonds within the band itself? Smaller, framing diamonds or a more prominent central stone? Regal, traditional or more contemporary design? Also consider how high (the offset) of the central diamond - and and preferences on its cut - some refract light better - offering a greater sparkle (refraction) over longer distances - but the trade off is usually increased weight. Check out H.Stern's catalog for overall configuration ideas. Most important: find a design that reflects your innermost soul, above all else - the diamond is an external representation of you intrinsic, natural, all-encompassing, individual beauty ;-)
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BeautifulNitemare
My future partner/lover/fianc can choose for he knows me the best. When our eyes meet; our hearts beat in rhythm; our feelings entwine as one. We share all-we feel all. We are separate but we are one.
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Finally, a true romantic - we're a dying breed - that answer actually left me speechless - and you know that's not easy to do with me ;-)
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Otter, you are immersed in people that love the heck out of you. So don't hate yourself. Change the things about you that you hate and move the chains forward for a first down. We all like you. You can like you too!!

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BeautifulNitemare
Go kb
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Aww, Beaut! My sweety pie!
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