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tessviva: 10 months ago via Android

my partner is cheating on me online though she claimed she havent seen the girl. do i have to let it slide?

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TinkerTuTu: 10 months ago

Cheating is cheating..online or not.

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migueljimenez: 10 months ago

Internet flirting is harmless.

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onedirection1: 10 months ago

no if you do if they did it once they will do it again

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XOSusanXO: 10 months ago

No! I won't let it slide, your partner can say anything to make you feel better, or for you to trust again, unless she proves it to you!

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davidNS5: 10 months ago via iPhone

Lesbian?

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mikelc: 10 months ago

does it matter?

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davidNS5: 10 months ago via iPhone

Not really I'm just assuming

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mikelc: 10 months ago

assuming doesn't end with a question mark. lol. You are funny.

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Spf_0: 10 months ago

Are you kidding me, don't let it slide!

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insanemonkey75: 10 months ago

if you let it slide she will think that she can do it whenever and you wont do anything, so dont just let it go.

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JHC1: 10 months ago via Android

I agree. You can't just let it slide.

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peanutbutterjelytimy: 10 months ago

no, if she really loved you she wouldnt cheat on you

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katandmah: 10 months ago via iPhone

As a couple, try to figure out what she is getting from online. And if any way you could provide that. Internet cheating is still cheating. But she started going there for a reason. If it is a way far out reason you might want to consider whether you can trust her or not. If you're invested in the relationship and she is too, you might want to try a couple of sessions of Couples Therapy. Good luck :)

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tessviva: 10 months ago via Android

Thanks for the advice.

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AllBangedUp: 10 months ago

Good answer, well said! :)

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MVPshawnSaal: 10 months ago

I would talk it over with them! But if you have a strong feeling about it then I wouldnt!!

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LlsjkoJohnson: 10 months ago via iPhone

Weather it's online or not either way it's still cheating.

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keatron: 10 months ago via iPhone

If a person is going to cheat then nothing you say or do will have a lasting effect. They won't cheat if they love you, and if they don't love you then you need to move on anyway. Jealously will never bring you anything but heartache. Time to find someone who does care.

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AllBangedUp: 10 months ago

It's difficult to cheat through a screen... in the "physical sense," anyway. If she hasn't actually "been with" the other person, well... technically, she hasn't cheated... eh... not really. There's a grey area when defining "cheating" in a this type of situation.
Often, emotional betrayal (as it is in your relationship) can be/feel worse than physical betrayal.
You most certainly DON'T have to "let it slide," you have the option of ending the relationship, or trying to work things out with her; the option of doing whatever you feel will make you happy.
I can tell you this much: if you feel that you can no longer trust her, it'd likely be best to end the relationship. Trust is essential in any relationship, and once that trust is lost, it's very hard to re-establish. If you can't trust her, you'll both be very unhappy trying to stay together.

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tessviva: 10 months ago via Android

Thanks! you're the only one who answered with honest and pure sincerity. Tho im still confuse coz i still care for the person. dont know..

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mikelc: 10 months ago

caring for someone is different than trusting someone. When I got cheated on by my ex, I felt like it was time for me to move on. I am not going to lie, it hurt like hell. The insides of my body felt like they were being ripped from my body. But, I knew that I would never be able to trust that person ever again. In the end I felt like I still have my self confidence in knowing that I won't let anyone cheat on me and get away with it. I care for my ex. I do even though it has been a year, but I am way happier now. It takes about a year to get over someone. Hope this helps.

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AllBangedUp: 10 months ago

You're welcome! (Seems my notifications weren't working... again, grrr!)

If you don't trust this girl, end it now & save yourself months, or even years, of unhappiness. Some people think you can get over someone cheating, I don't agree w/ that. The lack of trust is only going to make you both unhappy. Been there, done that... it's miserable & a huge waste of time. Move on, you'll find someone who treats you better, someone you can trust!
Best Wishes to you... :)

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xMimiona: 10 months ago

Your a girl or a boy? O>O

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mikelc: 10 months ago

why is this important?

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xMimiona: 10 months ago

because i dont think i understand i just wanna know to know how to solve this o-o?

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xMimiona: 10 months ago

mikel, hmm ur a guy

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xMimiona: 10 months ago

and ur gf is a lezbo, rly sorry to say this, but thats what i understand and thats why the gender is important

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mikelc: 10 months ago

I'm confused. My gf is a lezbian? I don't have a gf. Are you talking to the person the posted the question or me? You are confusing me, sorry. Do explain.

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xMimiona: 10 months ago

Woops ur not the one who asked LOL sry

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xMimiona: 10 months ago

LOL Im so sorry i thought ur the one who asked thats why i said those things >w<

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mikelc: 10 months ago

hahaha. So, will the answer be different if they are lesbians? I think being a lesbian, gay or straight, has nothing to do on how to solve the universal issue of cheat. Do you?

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xMimiona: 10 months ago

Well yah, ok fine im just so curios, i love being curios, ;v;

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