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What should you do if you really like a girl but is too afraid to ask them out?

we're good friends, we've known each other for two years, and awhile ago, when we were alone, she was looking around hiding her feelings and I can never get a chance alone cuz she has lots of friends. and she doesn't have a phone an doesnt respond to emails

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Just joke around and ask her if she would go out with people you know, say like would you ever date so and so and then after a few people just throw your name in there and if she doesn't answer just start laughing like your joking and if all else fails you just gotta ask her.

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Good idea !!!!!! I would do that if i was a boy
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Boooo! That has after school special written all over it!
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some 'after school special' stuff is loaded with common sense...
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lol mrfadedglory
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C'mon dude!!!!!!! Lolol grow a set. J/k Just pull her aside and say "hey, (name), I would like to take you to (restaurant). Is that something you would be interested in??!! I hope that works. Good luck

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I think that you should go up to her when she's alone and ask her. She will really appreciate you asking in person and like that you are brave enough to ask! And remember, the worse thing that can happens she says no. Good luck!!

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Thank you I will do that
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^ Good answer, but ima add 2 it. Try 2 get her to like u more byy flirting wit her . Thatt can improve ur chances of u & her bein together. So FLIRT foo!
P.S NEVER get a friend 2 ask her out 4 u. She wuld get tha impression tht yur way 2 shy to be a good boyfriendd .

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You could first tell her some jokes you know make laugh and the know what she likes and get interested in what she likes and then ask her out. =D if it does not work out what was meant to be happened. Good luck!!

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Ask your friend to ask her out for you or ask her out and if she says no say it was a dare

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Nonono that dont work
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NOOOO! never!
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No that's the most annoying thing ever!!!!!!
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Well then! Stop drinking haterade! It works for all of my guy friends
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... childish ....
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Will you guys plz stop thumbsdowning me!!! Sheesh :_(
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Sorry but that's a bad answer!
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Well ya but i understood that with the first 8 thumbs downs and the comment telling me it was childish
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Well actually, she would think that was stupid and think I'm weird, and stupid for doing it, and she's the mature, yet fun type
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Nicee well good luck with her:)
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nice answer kelbraves i love you
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smittyja24 i like your profile pic with that answer XD
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Start going out as just friends and then start getting more friendly as you go along. Trust me works all the time.

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If you are under the age of 15 and you are really really good friends and you want it to stay that way don't ask her out because you'll eventually break up and that will ruin it. If you are under the age of 15 just become even better friends and wait a year or two more than go for it. And if you're asking how I know this stuff it's because I'm around 13.

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Ok I had the same trouble man your not alone this is what you can do you can talk to her or hang with her and be nice but not to nice like don't be creepy nice just be yourself ask her what she likes wether its flowers or comic books and when the moment comes call her or talk to her in person it's the best way:) goodluck buddy

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Just go for it!

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I think you should go ahead and ask her out whenever you get the chance especially if she already has feelings for you. And don't be afraid to express the way you feel about her. Personally I think it's very sweet when a guy really tries his best to ask out a girl :)

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Just ask her girls like a guy who is brave enough to ask

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just talk to her you never know unless you try

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Flirt a little bit with her then just ask her can I talk to you alone then tell her how you feel and ask her out.

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Hard too tell what too do how old are you and how old is she?

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I'm 14 almost 15 she's 14
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Hmmm i would use the waiting game, wait till she is mad or sad about something then talk too her comfort her take her side about the problem and act like you really care she really like the fact that you care about her not just her looks
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Seriously go up to her and ask if she'd like to go out. Ask as confidently as you can. If she says no, just say ok no problem. Don't wait too long you'll end up like me. Stuck on friend island with no chance of the girl you like ever thinking of you as more than a friend. Good luck dude!

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You. Hows your love life?
Her. Dont have one.
You. We can change that. ;)


Or if she says good.
You. GREAT! I always knew I was a good lover.
Her. We arnt going out.
You. We can change that. ;)

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That is so dumb!
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Just be yourself and don't do to much stuff that will make you stand out.

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I like kelbraves idea but before you do think of something that would make you lose a dare so you wont be thinking really fast and blurt out something stupid. I'm also too scared to ask out a girl and too scared too ask a friend (just asked kelbraves on a date) and XD guitarbro such a stupid answer

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go over to her house and than ask her out. but if she says no than just try it another time

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