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Why am I such a jealous and suspicious husband. My wife gives me no reason to be. Is something wrong with me?

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Buddy its because of insecurity. We are all insecure in one way or another. What you need to do is just talk to your wife, tell her how you feel and maybe she can help you out by not doing some things. Then again, you need to also just remember to trust her and that she married you and that's a big commitment.

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Being jealous and suspicious are not good traits to have. Self confidence is missing from your make up. You have to believe in your self and learn to trust others .Mainly your wife. Be proud of who you are and have that self confidence that will help you through life.

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I would sit down with her and talk about your guys' past, how you guys met, old things you used to do, etc, because it will remind you why your married to her in the first place.

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Idk about that cause I'm the same way and I have all that.

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Sometimes guys are jealous of theirs girls cause they've cheated on them and they thinks they're going to do the same. Even if the girl does nothing to make the guy jealous

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Well. . . .Yes and No. . . .you do need to learn to trust ur wife if you've been together for a long time and she's never cheated and you have kids together then you don't need to worry as much. . . so yes there is something wrong with you if you've got all that and ur always supicious, but don't think that just because you've got all that it means she'll never cheat cuz my parents had all that and my parents cheated on each other they got divorced when i was in H.S. so that's why I say Yes and No.

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Might be best to fully hone into the specifics of your jealousy. Considering you stated, her not giving you a reason...be realistic and face your insecurities upfront.

Sounds like you don't trust yourself, therefore you can't trust your partner. Learn to trust yourself wholeheartedly.

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You probably have low self confidence. You have to trust that your wife loves you! Try not to be suspicious because it can come off as you not trusting her. Relax and chill.

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