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mags41: 9 months ago via iPhone

For the boys: what is a good way for a girl to approach a guy?

I'm in my 20s and can't count how many times I've seen a gorgeous guy in public and have always been too intimidated to say anything. any tips for a chick that you know firsthand doesn't end with me looking stupid?

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Tony737: 9 months ago

Girls have NO reason to be intimidated by us! We're the ones who should be intimidated! Whe we see a pretty girl our brain shuts down and we say (in idiot voice) "Duh, hi pretty girl, me like you, duhhh." All you have to do is walk up and say "Hello, handsome."

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mags41: 9 months ago via iPhone

Just like that? Isn't that a bit forward?

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Tony737: 9 months ago

Yes, but that's what ya gotta do. Men are scared to apporoach women these days because of the bra-burners taking them to court for "sexual-harrassment!

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Tony737: 9 months ago

How about "Wow, you're really handsome, do you get sick of hearinmg that?" haha

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mags41: 9 months ago via iPhone

So I can just walk up to a guy in public and say hey handsome...then he'll say hey...then it's awkward smalltalk though, what is a good thing to do/say after the initial hello?

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Tony737: 9 months ago

Depends on where you are and what you're doing. He'll say "Hey gorgeous." Then you just talk about whatever is going on around you.

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mags41: 9 months ago via iPhone

Haha you seem pretty confident in his response, seems too easy

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Tony737: 9 months ago

Because guys are easily flattered haha

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tuni32z: 9 months ago

be like can i use your phone turn off yours and show it to her it got no baterryy nd den call ur phone nd ull have her number real quick after dat den text her saying oh look ur number was here

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superglide79: 9 months ago via iPhone

Thats a violation and would scare the hell out of someone if u tricked them through that kind of stalking

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tuni32z: 9 months ago

naww if the girl likes you she wont care

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mags41: 9 months ago via iPhone

That is awful, plus I am a straight female. But if any guy even tried that on me I'd tell him to get lost

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beattheheat: 9 months ago

Well can you help me? I have the same problem only with guys at school. I'm in 8th grade and I cannot seem to talk to guys :(

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Hollow_Breeder: 9 months ago

Just say "Hi." At this first approach NO DECENT guy will give you a hard time. Guys appreciate attention as much as girls do. Being nice and giving a nice greeting or a simple gesture and a nice smile really goes a long way. TRY IT. Smile and say Hi

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simplymelchie: 9 months ago

^_^ hi!

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Hollow_Breeder: 9 months ago

hey

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simplymelchie: 9 months ago

hey you!

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Hollow_Breeder: 9 months ago

hey.. what's up? Melchie :-)

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superglide79: 9 months ago via iPhone

Walk up next to a person and just simply ask how their day is going. Using some phoney crap is a pure lack of selfesteem and gives no validation to the other person. Simply hi how u doing always worked for me

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thespang: 9 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 6:36AM on 8/16/2012

Here's a good one.....
Walk near the guy you like, touch him on the shoulder, start to walk off .. He will turn towards you;) , you say "" I'm sorry, I just wanted to touch something beautiful today and begin to walk off.. :) if he likes you He WILL pursue you.. If he doesn't pursue you you don't look stupid, rather you look confident in walking off ;)
This has been a proven technique used buy my friends both male and female ;)
Good luck ;)

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mags41: 9 months ago via iPhone

Really? As in literally you know people who have done this?

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thespang: 9 months ago via iPhone

A bunch! Keep that secret closely held between a few or it will get over used..
It's incredibly effective ...
Your giving a nice compliment and walking away... If your in the right setting they will come find you to talk;)

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toriwise1: 9 months ago

just tried it!!!! omg it worked!!! he got my number!!!!!!!!!

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no1kiwi: 9 months ago via iPhone

So u see this cool guy, u catch him smiling , walk up and say looks like your having great day!! I'd like some of that !!!

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