I speak from personal experience, as I tend to date younger men, so take my word when I say:
1. I understand your concern, but Age has nothing to do with it. He could be 50 and still want a younger woman later down the road. You are worried about the wrong thing. We really can't control how people are going to act or think in the future, so don't concern yourself with things you can't do anything about.
2. Confidence in yourself is the most sexy and attractive quality that u can possess. Be sure in yourself. You are attractive enough to attract him in the first place.

thruth: 1 year ago via iPhone

Perfect answer. Said it all.

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msbartender: 1 year ago via iPhone

Thanks.

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If you are on the verge of getting married then you should know one another very well. This means that you should be able to tell whether this is the kind of person who would leave you for someone younger. You need too be confident in your relationship and trust him. For more information, visit http://www.ehow.com/how_2299228_build-trust-relationships.html.

You say that you don't feel pretty enough? Well, feelings are not fact! God didn't create junk!
It's what's in your heart that matters,not what our earth suit looks like :)
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You should have more confidence in yourself. You shouldn't be with someone that makes you feel this way or think this, sorry. I'm only trying to ask if you want to live the rest of your life feeling down on yourself? If you're already worried maybe you should think more before getting married. Age is just a state of mind. (well, that's my opinion anyway). I hope things work out the way you want, good luck.

While there are no guarantees in life one thing is for sure, we all age. That being said , is your guy the type who would love only your beauty and not who you really are? Probably not.
He picked you for who you are. Try and remember that.
Great answers above as well!!!

I'm 43, & certainly don't look like I did when I got married 20 years ago, & neither does my 45 year old husband. If you are contemplating marriage, looks should not be what your relationship is based on. If the way you look is going to destroy your marriage, it's not that great to start with.

The question is how does he feel about you? And most of all how does he treat you? It shouldn't be about you looking young, when it should be about how much does he love you and is he willing to continue that love as long as you both shall live!