Unrealistic expectations in a relationship
Basically, we were going about our morning and he very viciously snapped at me (and had a hath facial expression may I add) it was over nothing and totally unexpected. I had a look on my face, furrowed brow, mouth slightly open, in shock, mad that he'd snapped at me in such a way and hurt as well. He yelled DON'T LOOK AT ME LIKE THAT. I said you were rude to me! What do you expect. I will have a look on my face. He continued to argue that my expression was not ok. Asked me to apologise. I wouldn't because I feel facial expressions are normal! He said I do it on purpose, I said I didn't, that it's just natural to react to something like that. He SCREAMED "LIAR!!!" I couldn't handle it and left.
I told him I was stressed when he asked why I wasn't eating. he said well maybe if you apologise for what you did then you wouldn't be so stressed. He's wanting me to apologise for the expression on my face. His has been a constant problem. He gets furious when I have perfectly natural reactions to situations. Showing any expression means me getting verbally abused and asked to apologise for my actions. Is this fair. I'm miserable and May leave him soon... :(