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montana67: 10 months ago | Last edited at 8:40PM on 8/17/2012

What if the parent wait until the child is 12 years old to put the other parent on child support ga

Why wait so long to put a person on child support. Is it because she does not know who the father really is? Even if she lied to 2 different men?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

It took my mother 16 years to finally ask the courts for child support from Ray. (my semen donor) and i guess its because she wanted to be able to support us on her own. So i think it is about being able to seem independent.

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Cool Story bro

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Go away.

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

You're not really mad are you?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Like i said... Go away.

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

:( what did I do to make you mad? :/

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

You are mean to me.

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

How?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

more like how are you nice to me?

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

I wasn't being mean though, I just said why can't girls stop complaining....

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

And you called me a setting -.-

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

It was just a joke.....I really try, not to be a jerk....I'm sorry if I hurt you :(

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

it's okayyy lol im a bit emotional today.

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Another rough day for me with my gf lol

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

lol sorry to hear that. rough day for me too. the only thing pulling me through is screaming We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together by Taylor Swift haha luckily no one is home.

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

How long do periods last again lol?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Haha well mine are only three days. But it is different for every girl.

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

It's been like 4 now I think lol

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

well they last anywhere from 3-7 days

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Why do you girls make us guys suffer?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Excuse me!? we did not choose to have a bloody massacre in our pants once a month! -.-

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Thats so hot, you just made me h--orny

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

You know i have that affect on men lol

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Lmao, do you actually?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Haha uhm sometimes (this not being one of them) i mean today i was crossing the street (just in a dress, nothing like hot) lol and like guys always have to honk there darn horns and be annoying... I hope one day they get into a car accident lol not really but maybe run into the curb or something just to make my day.

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Lmfao, my friends and I do that.

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

eww. well I hope you know it is VERY annoying haha well to me at least.

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

If I saw you in real life, we'd probably do that to you lol

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Haha wow... well i sometimes put like "sexy" pictures on my tumblr and guys like blow up my page saying the grossest things!

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Lol you are pretty hot though lol

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

I would say im average lol

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Uh...no

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

uhm... yes

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

I'm the telling you, you're pretty cute...probably better then average lol

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

well thanks for being so nice :) haha but that is only your opinion.

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

bahaha uhm eww... that was TMI lol but no its not like that trust me.

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Why? Do have a freaky @$$ secret?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

mhmm haha pretty self explanatory

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

There's like 5 meanings to that though....

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

well what do you think it means and i will tell you if you are right or not

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Yeah pretty much all of that aha

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

NO! i have only been with one guy!

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Your whole life?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

well sexually yes...

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

I mean i have hooked up with guys before (makeu out) maybe like three guys but for s** only one

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Damn...your s** drive must be..like through the roof...lol

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Haha yeah i guess... but who doesn't like s**? no one lol everyone loves it!

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Well duh....there isnt really anything not to like about it

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

haha yeahh exactly :)

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

What are you doing now?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Just made my bed aha... and sweating :/ because it is so hot! you?

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Lmao, When you said made my bed and sweating

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

lol how is that funny?

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Idk, I guess I just thought of it the wrong way lol

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

haha you have a sick mind weirdo!

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

No...I'm a normal 20 year old kid..who loves $** and cute girls..pretty basic

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

haha oh my... :) well i guess i can accept that

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Lol if you can't except that I need those 2 things...we can't be friends ;)

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

haha i already said i accepted it nerd!

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

haha uhm wow! have fun with that dear :)

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Lol you know I'm kidding right

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Ha yeah i mean i would hope so :)

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Ouch ;) the only girl I'm having $** with is my gf....lol...

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Don't get jealous though lol

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

lmao i'll try ;)

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

I think your jealous....

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Omg...she is

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

haha no i'm eating :) my mom brought me home nachos! aha she loves me!

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Blame your mom when you turn fat and..... ;)

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

haha hey i work out! so that won't happen :)

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

How do you not have a bf? ...

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Uhm i think i'm too weird aha

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Oh, we'll that suxx, good luck with that though

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

aha thanks, im good being single for now :) no need to impress anyone

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Being Single sucks though

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Not when you were in a horrible relationship and you need time to find yourself again :)

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Uh...I guess....if you look at it that way

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

Mhm :) never let a relationship define you lol

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Ii really don't know how to respond to that??

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

aha why?

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Cuz being single sucks maybe?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

nah :) i mean sure when you see happy couples it might sting a bit, but its really a time to be happy, do what you want and not have to worry about pleasing someone only yourself :)

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

That's true, maybe you're right,....meh

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

haha yeah i was in one for five years so its nice to have a break :)

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Wow...I think my last gf was 6 months?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

lol and what was your longest?

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

8 months

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

wow not very long

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Meh, not bad

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

oh em ge i am so full!

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Huh?

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

food coma ahaha!

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

You seriously have to re phrase your words better

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

i just ate enough for five grown men :)

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Ugh

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

haha :) im suprised i don't weigh a million pounds! My sister and I are the exact same way! we eat anything we want! My family jokes that we have a tape worm and im starting to wonder if it might be true lmao

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Chris_99: 10 months ago

Omg.... :0 ...I'm gonna go.....lol c ya

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laurenmarie1230: 10 months ago

bye bye :)

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gatorblu: 10 months ago | Last edited at 8:42PM on 8/17/2012

Most times it is just a matter of money. I'm not saying the father is a bad person, but sometimes the mother just doesn't care to deal with the father and wants to raise the child on her own. I know in the state of FL if someone applies for food stamps or other aid the state will make the father start to pay child support. They figure, and rightly so IMO, that both parents should be responsible in raising a child before they should have to pay.

If you question the paternity ask for a DNA test.

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tamlyn: 10 months ago via iPhone

I think the better question is Why did the mother have to go to court to get child support? Why didn't the father step up and take care of his kid without being forced to?

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montana67: 10 months ago

The mother did not want to be found. And in the state of GA. If you do not have personal info about a person, then you will have no luck finding them.

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rsarnol: 10 months ago via iPhone

In most states you have until a child is 18 to apply or support, or 21 if the kid is in college. Everyone has their own reasons for when and why they file for support.

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