Ew 20 year old men want something a 14 year old can't legally give get over yourself maybe something's wrong with him or he's just really stupid either way you need to break up you'll just get hurt if he really loved you he would wait doesn't look like he's waiting so it's best to take this advice
no its not, he could end being arrested and no relationship is worth the jail time.he could possibly be after you for things you are to young for and ,ay not want to give up. but if your parents are fine with it or you are an emancipated minor that yes it would be ok. ive been thru the same situation as you when i was 16. goodluck
If you really care about the guy, leave him alone. He might make your parents mad, and if it goes any further than a hug and a kiss, they could have him jailed. Leave him alone, because the consequences could ruin his life.
1 year ago
Last edited at 6:17PM on 8/26/2012
NO that's not good and does your parents know this ? I TRUELLY dont even think you should be dating anyone if you think thats ok and if you think your parents dont have to know this then you shouldnt be dating . he could rape you and hurt you . there something wrong with that guy if he thinks its ok to date 14 year old .hes man not boy. hes a grown man that's gross and i am sorry but your like a little kid to him. . hes a grow up . your dating a grown man why? can't you find a guy your age its a lot better sweet heart and your going realize how much better it is. your minds not a grown up and your not a grown up yet so its better to be with a guy your age . no way not good nothing goods going come out of that.
No it is not okay. Wait 4 years then do it but as of now he will most likely cheat on you and marry some other girl anyways so save yourself the heartbreak and find someone closer to your age. For one he can land in jail just for dating you since you can not have consent from your parents yet. and You are to young for him anyways. He is an adult most likely one who dates multiple girls at a time and is a predator who takes girls like you and kidnaps them. Stay away form someone like that.
is he in high school or something your a freshman right this happened in my school and she got in lots of trouble you should really tell your parents about this. And also does he know your 14 I don't know depends really but if hes out of high school NO ?
No this is not ok! I you have to ask then you know it is wrong. This is something wrong with him to want to date a 14 year old. I am not trying to say you are not perfect. I am sure you are awesome! But someone who is 20 does not or should not have anything is common with a 14 year old. Ask your parents what they think. If you can't talk to them about it then you know it is wrong!!!!
It's illegal because you are a minor and they aren't... but if it's love, it's love.. and people need to understand that... He probably isn't perverted or desperate like everyone else keeps saying.. because they don't know the situation.. They are just talking bs before knowing.... It could have just been like.. talking as friends not expecting more then fall for each other.. I dated a 18 year old when I was 13... even though it's illegal if you do any kissing and all... we didn't though...It was love... dated him for 1 and a half years... We aren't over each other.. but it was time for us to move on...
DEFINATELY NO. THIS IS ILLEGAL. Go tell your parents right away if you are already dating this person. I don't care about how nice he seems, you need to stop talking to this guy! I'm sorry. And if you're willing to wait, wait until you are a legal adult!
You have to have parental permission first otherwise you could press charges against him, because it is illegal for anyone above 18 to date a minor. But I suggest not doing so anyways, maturity will be a huge difference for you guys, and things you may enjoy, he might think is stupid and childish. Or you can't do things he can since they are older. I suggest finding a person closer to your age as a minor :)
1 year ago
Last edited at 5:16AM on 9/1/2012
Girl i don't know what his problem is or better yet what your problem is. But if you care about him stop seeing him until the time is right. Men like that only want something you cannot and should not give to him at this time. So break up, be thorough and straight forward with your reason. Is there even any parental consent. If you do truly love him and he truly loves you, then he will wait for you and you should wait.
I'm a Guy. This makes ME yack. a 20 year old picking on a 14 yr old?? I am sorry. I know how you feel like you know 'everything' and no one understands but this guy is just picking on you wanting ONE thing. Care to guess what it is? You already know what IT is. And he should be ashamed of himself for pushing you this way. There is a reason why you should be dating guys your age. It is the time for you to be figuring these things out. But a 20 year old already has this figured out and is fishing around for an easy catch. You wont believe it, but at your age, all this guy sees in you is a bullseye painted on you. he's just hoping you stand still while he shoots an arrow at you hoping it will reach its' mark. You asked, This is the truth.