Don't cry! Go outside. The sun is shining. Take somebody's dog for a walk. Bake cookies for a grandparent ans take them over. Pull all the weeds in a violent manner and vow that this thing will never happen to you again. Volunteer at the animal shelter -- animals never disappoint us. Become a storyteller / reader to the little kids on your street. Fight the urge to weep over your life. Make your life work in other ways. Strive to be happy.