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I'm honestly just sick and tired of my dad.

he laughs at me and says I'll work at McDonald's when I'm older. he's not supportive and isn't proud of me. he says I'm doing bad in life. I don't even do drugs! he makes fun of me and whenever I don't answer him he threatens to hit me... sometimes he even does. he shouts at me and I didn't do anything wrong! he says that what I want and do is stupid. he even lies to my family. he doesn't care about my health. how do I get him to leave me alone

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Honey, I'm so sorry. You really should talk to someone about this. You don't deserve this kind of treatment at all can you talk to a family member like an aunt or uncle/grandparent? Maybe you could go stay with one? If he's hitting you and abusing you mentally you really should tell someone. It's so sad:( I feel bad for you. No child deserves this. I pray it gets better for you real soon

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hi ... lets give each other 30 greens a day... starting tonight...will that be ok with you?
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Sure will:). I'm going threw all yours now. I need to get my hubbies info for his ask so I can green both of our answers. I'll go threw all on his. Could you imagine??
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Child services?

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Sad situation. He should be proud of you no matter what. Call child abuse for the hitting. Do your best to prove him wrong and show him you talents and abilities.

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You need to call child services

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God made you and everyone perfect. Talk to your mom or other trusted family member. If you are in danger or being abused (even emotionally) then you and this trusted family member need to talk to the police!

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I'm already emotionally abused. He's the reason why I'm scared of talking to people. I'm scared they'll yell at me.
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If they do they will be just as guilty as your dad. Do you have any loved/trusted family members you can talk to?
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My mom wouldn't understand. My brother isn't trustworthy. So no. I'm alone.
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No mother in her right mind would let her child be in this type of a situation. You are not alone God loves you and will be there for you. Talk to your mom. If she will not listen then find a way to talk to the police ASAP if he says he will hurt you. The next time he says he is going to hit you call 911. No one has the right to make you live in fear.
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Some parents think if they point out the flaws the child will work harder to do better. Men parent this way more often than women I think. How much better it is when they focus on good and over look less than perfect. It may not mean you aren't cared about it is a style of parenting that was very common years ago. when parents know better they do better. Often they were parented the same way and that's all they know. You might be able to ask him if his dad put him down to get him to do better, then tell him how you feel about it and how much better you would feel if he was more encouraging not discouraging. You may even have to remind him when he does it. Dad I hear that people can become who they think they can become in life. Do you agree? I hear you telling me everyday that I'm not good enough. I think more support from you would work better, at least then I'd know you are on my team and I might be more able to succeed, if I hear your words of encouragement when I do things.

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