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Me and my bf had this really big fight be for I left town and now I won't be able to talk or see him for 3 weeks, what do I do

this relationship is really bad but we have been together for 5 years and I love him. for a while he abused me but it turned out to be that something was screwed up with meds so I forgave him. then he cheated on me and yet again I forgave him, idky!!! and now we are fighting over me not telling him I was going to my grandparents house for three weeks and he couldn't come because no one knows we are really still together. an now i think he is going to do something really stupid that could get him self hurt, I live him but I want to leave him. p.s he is a 210 5.11 football player

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He beat you and cheated you. Never forgive someone for cheating you. Tell him that he shouldn't have made such a big deal over you leaving for three weeks and tell him you don't think you should be together anymore. I understand you love him but I'd you love him still he might still keep doing things that hurts you mentally/emotionally/physically.

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Hmmm I wouldn't have forgave him when he beat you or cheated on you. But honestly I think y'all should break up . But in stead of the old line its me not you . You should say " I think we need a break because being apart can bring people together".

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