You need to look at the big picture. Aside from the missing rubber, what other evidence is making you doubt his fidelity? 1 missing condom does not a cheater make. If there are other clues or signs than you may be correct. Women are better at picking up clues than men when it comes to matters of the heart-but that doesn't mean you're right. The only way to find out is to put the pieces of the puzzle together. Has his behavior changed, are you still spending quality time together, are things in the bedroom "normal", has he been working late, not going to where he said he'd be, & other clues. If everything else is "normal" you may just be a little paranoid
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I think if it's really bothering you, you should be open and honest about your feelings. Obviously after 10 years you must have incredible trust built up, but I understand how the mind can wander and nag you until you're comfortable with whatever it is you're thinking about.
It's better for you to talk about it no matter how silly or crazy you feel than to become obsessive from paranoia.
Watch him for any unusual activities or if he suddenly is more secretive, ie hiding his phone/computer from you, being vague and distant about his comings and goings.. Could do some tests on him like say your going out and return randomly and see his reaction when you return home, " oh I forgot something" always work. Best of luck and I hope your hubby is faithful and still madly in love with you.. also def talk to him bout how you feel and everything, try a marriage councelor if you think that may help
Do you have children that could have taken it? They could have out of curiosity.
It sounds suspicious to me. I'm not sure what to give you as an advice.
Sounds suspicious to me. Not sure what advice to offer
if u guys never had a problem, nothin is wrong u guys just don remember wat u did to it... but if u had problems before better watch...
there are tons of possibilities for what could have happened to the condom. I understand his reaction in saying that he is not a cheater, because i understand that guys can be very defensive when told about something that could even be interpereted as an accusation, and a missing condom can be interpereted that way. I would trust him when he says he isnt cheating. so here is what could have happened with the condom, aside from him cheating. he could have found a tear in the packet, or a hole in the condom, which means it would need to be thrown away, he could have given it to one of his friends, or it could have been any of the reasons you stated above. You married him, so give him some trust, and believe what he says at this point in time. hope this helps.
Maybe the box was short one ?
if his lied berfore than he will lie again but if yals relationship together is good then theres a good reason or explanation where it went
If he was going to be a cheater why would he take one from your stash? Wouldn't he go out and buy a new one? Wouldn't it be rather odd to use the one intended for you?
If you don't use them all that often, how do you know exactly how many you have? I mean it's more likely you just forgot how many were left, or miscounted last time (though really who counts that stuff). Why would you automatically assume cheating?
And I'm not sure why I just assume he is cheating. Prob. bc I am a woman lol (I shouldn't categorize all women though)
Thank you!
I think you should listen to your heart,they nevr lie.
