1 year ago
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Trust (ever evolving in many areas) Respect (individual and what makes them spcl.. the need to grow) Understanding (steeped in communication and lots and lots of listening) Enlove (just is stuff); inherent in the three aforementioned
Don't live in each other's pockets. Have your own separate interests and some in common. Treat them better than your boss, and listen to them like it's your job. Don't keep score. Don't hold grudges or bring up old offenses.
trust love respect communication comprimise each person putting one another before anything or anyone and of course great sex is a must!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!same life goals never go to sleep angry But #1 you must love yourself before u can love anyone else If i only realized all this at 22 when i was married i still would be it only took 20 years to figure out.
It's hard to just name just 3! There are so many aspects that go into making a marriage work. But I think keeping the lines of communication open, respecting one another, and also keeping God in your marriage. :)
(1) Close your eyes from what your wife does (2) Don't ask any question even you have all the proof that the wife is cheating you (3) Always pretend to be a foolish man in front of your wife even she is unable to do anything. You will see your marriage will be very successful. Otherwise you cannot get it whatever you do. It looks good reading in books "Trust, Love, communication, respect, cooperation, ......etc". Many of us have become foolish many times when they have been cheated by their wives and still kiss their wife in the evening which actually had been very meaningless for her after spending many hours in powerful sex with her boy friend in the afternoon. What will your Trust, respect, love and kiss do there?????????
1st:the love to build them life ....2nd :the sexual communication to can continue thatlife `s harmony ....the 3rd and the most important :the difference in ideas all of them to build something new in them life without continue the same routine and be boaring from other
SO I can say good life to how is have all of that thing in his marital life
Keeping yourself healthy, energetic and optimistic Sometimes retell the story of a wonderful day from all the past days eg romancing, proposing, birthing day, wedding day, the new home, keep the photos moving through permanent displays... live by Desiderata (though it says nothing to families.. noticed ?).. fend off the world while protecting your marriage.
honesty, openness(hide nothing bigger then a gift), communication. it is my opinion that if more people said it how it is rather then trying so hard to white wash life we would all be better off admit when you do wrong call them on it when you find out they do wrong keep each other honest if you can communicate honestly and openly you will increase your chances greatly
after 18 years I can say Trust ( Knowing that no matter how it seems that the other person is not out to get you)
Communication (guys, this means you too, you don't have to be overly sensitive, just let her know you have thought about it. Oh and if you disagree, Be Gentle. No matter how strong they appear they are women
A SENSE OF HUMOR if you can't laugh at yourselves or at the situation when it is over, you will stay angry inside. this will erupt later