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Foogee: 9 months ago

What 3 things make a good marriage?

What are the 3 most important thing to have in order to have a good healthy marriage?

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TrustLoveRespect: 9 months ago

(1) Close your eyes from what your wife does
(2) Don't ask any question even you have all the proof that the wife is cheating you
(3) Always pretend to be a foolish man in front of your wife even she is unable to do anything.
You will see your marriage will be very successful. Otherwise you cannot get it whatever you do. It looks good reading in books "Trust, Love, communication, respect, cooperation, ......etc".
Many of us have become foolish many times when they have been cheated by their wives and still kiss their wife in the evening which actually had been very meaningless for her after spending many hours in powerful sex with her boy friend in the afternoon. What will your Trust, respect, love and kiss do there?????????

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LindaPerkins: 9 months ago

Love, trust and adaptability

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mywifeisthebest: 9 months ago

Adaptability is huge!!

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ellemacgregor: 9 months ago

Respect
Trust
Understanding the list goes on

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SportsGuy: 9 months ago

ding ding ding :)

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ellemacgregor: 9 months ago

Gonna hit the gym, be back in an lil bit.... :)

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SportsGuy: 9 months ago

use a glove.. ok girl.. good to "see" you

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ellemacgregor: 9 months ago

Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaack

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dirtygirl: 9 months ago via Android

trust communication love!!!! always talk abt everything! !!!

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doc151969: 9 months ago

Ahhh!!....Yes....got it!!!......Love thru communication....the universal language!!!...thanks........Doc

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Northerncali209: 9 months ago via Android

alcohol, sex,sex! lol

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Sexylady24: 9 months ago

Ooo i like you(;

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materda: 9 months ago

I dont know abot alcohol but i like the sex part

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Austin69: 9 months ago

Oh yeah 2 likes

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sunflowersugarbloom: 8 months ago

make that THREEE!

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Dianacruz: 9 months ago via Android | Last edited at 11:19AM on 8/20/2012

Trust, faith, honesty.

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SportsGuy: 9 months ago | Last edited at 11:27AM on 8/20/2012

Trust (ever evolving in many areas)
Respect (individual and what makes them spcl.. the need to grow)
Understanding (steeped in communication and lots and lots of listening)
Enlove (just is stuff); inherent in the three aforementioned

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Sexylady24: 9 months ago

Sex,trust,masterbating

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Tryssalin: 9 months ago

fidelity communication & separate bathrooms

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SoonerLegend: 9 months ago

Trust (is earned and goes both ways), Respect (same thing...) and Honest Communication. A good sense of humor is another requirement!

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JosieRonin: 9 months ago

Don't live in each other's pockets. Have your own separate interests and some in common.
Treat them better than your boss, and listen to them like it's your job.
Don't keep score. Don't hold grudges or bring up old offenses.

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FunnyGal: 9 months ago

Sense of humor
Respect - for self and spouse
"Do overs" -- opportunity to correct a big gaffe

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TL1998: 9 months ago

sex, sex and more sex

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materda: 9 months ago

love your comment

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TAWAHG: 9 months ago

good sex, great sex,incredibly overwhelming sex

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materda: 9 months ago

Love it!!!!!

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Someonelikeyou: 9 months ago

Loving kindness, Humor and a deep abiding regarding mixed with tremendous respect.

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LianeSalerno: 9 months ago

trust love respect communication comprimise each person putting one another before anything or anyone and of course great sex is a must!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!same life goals never go to sleep angry But #1 you must love yourself before u can love anyone else If i only realized all this at 22 when i was married i still would be it only took 20 years to figure out.

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doc151969: 9 months ago

I LOVE you!!...he...he...

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Frankwinn: 9 months ago

Trust,Love and Honesty are the three major things to make it an success.

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xmeen: 9 months ago | Last edited at 1:58AM on 8/21/2012

To be always courteous to each other like "guests",Honesty ,Patience

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RosenMooralian: 9 months ago

Love, Trust, Honesty, Respect, and communication that all the things make your marriage stand away form others.

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king7276: 9 months ago

sex , trust, respect

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BreP143: 9 months ago

It's hard to just name just 3! There are so many aspects that go into making a marriage work. But I think keeping the lines of communication open, respecting one another, and also keeping God in your marriage. :)

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Foogee: 9 months ago

You are the first one I have read that has mentioned God.

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BreP143: 9 months ago

With God all things are possible! He made the first man and woman, he is the originator of life & love so I know that he can help make my marriage work :)

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Jollyholly67: 9 months ago

Trust, Respect and Commitment

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tsdiggs78: 9 months ago

Trust , Sex, Respect

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Aragene: 9 months ago

Trust, common values, attraction

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yutakabarbiie: 9 months ago

Love, Trust, & Understanding one another

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dagombaboy: 9 months ago

Trust, Respect, Good Sex

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Rozari: 9 months ago

understanding each other, working together, and loving one another :)

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Melrose2: 9 months ago

white lies, angry sex, and separate groups of friends

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EpicEndorphins: 9 months ago

sex sex and even more sex

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Arizonacharlie: 9 months ago

Trust, committment, and never,never,never admit to being unfaithful.

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triumphman: 9 months ago

Separate bathrooms, your own fridge space, and a large bed!

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KevinBuckner: 9 months ago

God must be first in each other's lives,then love and respect-communication. I've been married for 13 years and its great.

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AndThenILaughed: 9 months ago

love, trust and respect

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L8erG8er: 9 months ago

Love, respect, and communication. (honesty)

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Shammanieh: 9 months ago

1st:the love to build them life ....2nd :the sexual communication to can continue thatlife `s harmony ....the 3rd and the most important :the difference in ideas all of them to build something new in them life without continue the same routine and be boaring from other

SO I can say good life to how is have all of that thing in his marital life

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dwilson363: 9 months ago

honesty, love, and faithfulness

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harryoz: 9 months ago

Keeping yourself healthy, energetic and optimistic Sometimes retell the story of a wonderful day from all the past days eg romancing, proposing, birthing day, wedding day, the new home, keep the photos moving through permanent displays... live by Desiderata (though it says nothing to families.. noticed ?).. fend off the world while protecting your marriage.

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rich3425: 9 months ago

honesty, openness(hide nothing bigger then a gift), communication. it is my opinion that if more people said it how it is rather then trying so hard to white wash life we would all be better off admit when you do wrong call them on it when you find out they do wrong keep each other honest if you can communicate honestly and openly you will increase your chances greatly

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AshleyLeisure: 9 months ago

1. Realize both of you are human
2. Accept your partner for who he/she is
3. Know that you are going to make sacrifices for that person
But most of all, knowing that person is worth it!

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monaossy: 9 months ago

Honesty
Respect one another
Compromise

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HaroldDangl: 9 months ago

after 18 years I can say
Trust ( Knowing that no matter how it seems that the other person is not out to get you)

Communication (guys, this means you too, you don't have to be overly sensitive, just let her know you have thought about it. Oh and if you disagree, Be Gentle. No matter how strong they appear they are women

A SENSE OF HUMOR if you can't laugh at yourselves or at the situation when it is over, you will stay angry inside. this will erupt later

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rashidhiman: 9 months ago

i feel love is foremost than trust comes and at last but not the least compromise comes if u just trust your partner then also a marriage can succeed

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bluemoon1956: 8 months ago | Last edited at 9:34PM on 9/1/2012

i really feel that there 3 things that man and woman disagree on money sex trust as long the communication is good and strong then things be ok but you will have ups and downs

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eaglet: 8 months ago

1. Respect
2. Undivided attention
3. Unconditional love

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hawkmann: 8 months ago via iPhone

I agree

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eaglet: 8 months ago

thank u....!!!

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Kaytaytay: 8 months ago

Communication
Respect
Compromise

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monkeysgoooh: 8 months ago

Attraction (physically and emotionally), Maturity, Trust

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teamcnc: 8 months ago

Respect, Trust, Communication

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sunflowersugarbloom: 8 months ago

Why is EVERYONE saying SEX?!My answer is trust love and quality time <3 <3

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